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27yearsnowlost (original poster member #38787) posted at 3:22 AM on Wednesday, June 12th, 2013
My past story is first hurricane sandy took my house, them found out my WH cheated with a hooker for BJ's and now my son was riding his motorcycle with a few friends and person cut him off and slammed on his break going from 70mph. to 30 in a second my son when head over heals over the handle bars then let the scene. Long story short my son is in the hospital with no feeling on his left side for a few days and now starting to get some feeling back. The man was arrested and charged with road rage with the intent to kill. Plus more tickets. I just pray for no more. I'm not sure how much more I can take....... 
Bw (me) 47
WH (him) 59
D day 3/7/2013
Married 26 together 28
2 adult sons 25 and 22
Winter Snow ( member #24185) posted at 3:40 AM on Wednesday, June 12th, 2013
I am so sorry 27.
Hang in there. Be strong for your kiddo.
SoVerySadNow ( member #36711) posted at 4:15 AM on Wednesday, June 12th, 2013
Oh this is terrible! Your poor son. I hope he feels better quickly.
Me:BW
Him:WH
D-day(s),after years of TT and Gaslighting was Labor Day Weekend 2012, continuing for a week after. *Dammit! More TT 3/9/13
Really trending toward D- planning about it is my "happy place" now.
gonnabe2016 ( member #34823) posted at 4:24 AM on Wednesday, June 12th, 2013
Just keep breathing and take each thing as it comes....
"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott
In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.
debbysbaby ( member #32962) posted at 4:27 AM on Wednesday, June 12th, 2013
Oh my gosh. I hope your son makes a full recovery.
(((27)))
Hang in there. Son is the current priority. Focus on him right now.
-betrayed almost my whole almost 15 yr marriage
-divorced since 2004
fraeuken ( member #30742) posted at 4:30 AM on Wednesday, June 12th, 2013
Hope he is getting well soon!
Temporarily independent with the whole world at my feet.
AussieMum ( member #36579) posted at 5:15 AM on Wednesday, June 12th, 2013
((27years)) That is a lot of stress for one person to deal with.
I hope your son recovers very soon!
Me 47
ExH 51
EA Jun-Aug 12 (OW1)FB flirting and then EA/PA with OW2 (Aug-Dec 12). New OW Jan 13, introduced her to the kids immediately.
Married 10 years, together 14yrs
2 kids (DS13 & DD8)
Separated Jan 13. Divorced Jun 14
PanicAttack53 ( member #34195) posted at 5:27 AM on Wednesday, June 12th, 2013
So sorry 27. One moment at a time and hang in there. You're in all our thoughts and prayers.
Me-BH Her-XWW | B/ 59 on D-day (11/17/11) | D final on 10/1/13 I'm Lovin' life again!
Rest of the story really doesn't matter any more.
“Realize deeply that the present moment is all you have.” ― Eckhart Tolle
h0peless ( member #36697) posted at 5:33 AM on Wednesday, June 12th, 2013
I hope your son recovers quickly and fully.
sailorgirl ( member #38162) posted at 5:55 AM on Wednesday, June 12th, 2013
I'm so sorry. Please make sure the people around you know that you're near a breaking point and need support!
Married 14 years, three amazing kids
H had 17 month EA/PA
D-day 1/5/13
Reconcilling
solus sto ( member #30989) posted at 2:29 PM on Wednesday, June 12th, 2013
Oh, no! Prayers for your son--and for all of you. How awful
BS-me, 62; X-irrelevant; we’re D & NC. "So much for the past and present. The future is called 'perhaps,' which is the only possible thing to call the future. And the important thing is not to let that scare you." Tennessee Williams
painpaingoaway ( member #27196) posted at 2:39 PM on Wednesday, June 12th, 2013
Stay strong sweetie, you can do this. I am so so sorry about your son's accident. Positive thoughts and prayers going out for you and your son.
D-Day June 2009
Watch my movie: "My wayward husband's adventures in STD land":
Episode 1: youtu.be/9Jv0-d_CdYc
Episode 2: http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=8Tz822H82Gk
Ashland13 ( member #38378) posted at 2:50 PM on Wednesday, June 12th, 2013
I'm sorry, 27.
Best wishes for a swift and comfortable recovery for your son.
My life is as complicated as yours, but in different ways, and what I've had to learn is, unfortunately, to basically compartmentalize.
If you can live only for the day, in a moment, and take each event or issue as it comes to you, it helps. Some of the issues of life are huge, dramatic and terrible, but in the scheme of every day, it can actually be calming to only "Live In the Now", as Wayne and Garth say.
It's really helped me to put some major life changes and issues into more perspective and making lists when you can focus helps.
Giving yourself some space to just grieve and then put it away for a while is good. Another thing that helps is appealing to your senses and breathing and counting.
I wish you well and I wish you peace.
Ashland 13
A person is a person, no matter how small. -Dr. Suess
Perserverance and spirit have done wonders in all ages.
-George Washington
sinsof thefather ( member #29295) posted at 3:03 PM on Wednesday, June 12th, 2013
Sending positive thoughts and prayers to you and your son.
(((((27yearsnowlost)))))
...second star to the right and straight on till morning.
1Faith ( member #38975) posted at 3:15 PM on Wednesday, June 12th, 2013
God bless. Please hang in there and know that we are all praying for you and your family.
Sometimes my life feels like a test I didn't study for
Kajem ( member #36134) posted at 3:21 PM on Wednesday, June 12th, 2013
Saying prayers for you and your son.
Sometimes all you can do is breathe and count the minutes till you take another breath. And that is ok.... just don't forget to breathe.
Hugs,
K
I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - UnknownRelationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.
Thinkingtoomuch ( member #31765) posted at 3:39 PM on Wednesday, June 12th, 2013
Gosh, you're right about that--"how much more..." Definitely over the top. Wow.
It is true. You're forced by sheer mental exhaustion to take one moment at a time and breathe. Take care of yourself. Drink, eat, and take care of your son.
Prayers coming your way.
Josephine01 ( member #38511) posted at 6:22 PM on Wednesday, June 12th, 2013
Hugs and Prayers to you 27 and your son. Good Luck
Me, 47 BS
H, 65 WH
2 boys 23 and 18 years old
Married 24 years
Nailinmyforehead ( member #38427) posted at 7:50 PM on Wednesday, June 12th, 2013
Prayers for strength and healing for you and your family.
"Son, you've got the future- shining like a piece of gold, but I swear as we get closer- it looks more like a lump of coal"
27yearsnowlost (original poster member #38787) posted at 8:50 PM on Wednesday, June 12th, 2013
Thanks for all the hugs and well wishes.
One breathe at a time is right....one minute at a time and my one hour at a time.
I know people said god only gives you what you can handle....but wow I think he thinks I'm Wonder Woman if that true then I want her super powers too.
Bw (me) 47
WH (him) 59
D day 3/7/2013
Married 26 together 28
2 adult sons 25 and 22
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