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NikkiD (original poster member #38173) posted at 6:50 PM on Friday, June 14th, 2013
So, I havent posted in a while. And I guess you can say we are trying to reconcile. We still live in seperate places and I gotta be honest, I HATE living with my mom, but i am in no rush to make house with him again either.
I feel really indifferent. If he gets it together, ok, if not, ok. I dont really care.
Is this normal? Is there other work I need to be doing too? I mean, I just not feeling him anymore. How does one get excited about a person so was so disloyal?
Sign...... 
"Spoil me with Loyalty; I can finance myself...."
ME: BS-33
HE: WS-32
Married 3 years, known 20
2 kids
D-Day #1 12/30/12
False Recovery
D-Day #2 1/21/14
LTA 5 years-ish
Riding the "Struggle Bus"
Living apart....
libertyrocks ( member #38924) posted at 6:53 PM on Friday, June 14th, 2013
pffff. Just yesterday, I didn't care if he ate and then we had sex and made love all night. Go figure.
Yeah, I can't explain it. It's a process. That's all.
I've been doing 180, not even calling him. I want to love myself again.
Are you both in IC/MC? We didn't progress until we started and still become anti-productive when we miss sessions...
[This message edited by libertyrocks at 12:53 PM, June 14th (Friday)]
Me-37 Ws-37
2 kids
Dday Nov 2012, TT for a year.
Reconciling for the third time in 4 years.
NikkiD (original poster member #38173) posted at 7:03 PM on Friday, June 14th, 2013
No, not in IC or MC. Not sure I care that much though. Sex doesnt mean much to be honest because its not mental for me anymore.....
I dont know, it may be a deal breaker for me....Im just not that into him, or being married at all. I would rather do the mom thing with all the sports, and dance and whatever other stuff they want to discover and explore.....
"Spoil me with Loyalty; I can finance myself...."
ME: BS-33
HE: WS-32
Married 3 years, known 20
2 kids
D-Day #1 12/30/12
False Recovery
D-Day #2 1/21/14
LTA 5 years-ish
Riding the "Struggle Bus"
Living apart....
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