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huRtZ413 (original poster member #39214) posted at 10:16 PM on Monday, June 17th, 2013
after the year is up here in this state were going to visit our hometown for a while then find a new place to live . somewhere nobody knows our names and we have no history in and we can have a new start and new circle and a new future. im so glad he is willing to move away from here and away from my past back home . he is really excited and positive and sometimes its hard to keep up with him but i want what he wants and his is showing interests in my dreams so im wishing for this time here in this state to pass quickly im ready for a new place and a new start. i know it wont fix everything but its a start.
me_BW
him_WH
I'M ON THE FENCE
Undone1 ( member #37683) posted at 3:18 AM on Tuesday, June 18th, 2013
A friend of mine, whose husband also had a 2 year affair many years ago, moved after the A was known. It helped her immensely to have a fresh start.
I would love to move away, but alas. At least the OW moved away!
Undone1
Married 10+ years to my high school sweetheart
DDAY 10/27/12
Me 55
WH 55
Blended Family: 25, 21, and 20
Married 10 years
"The Universe Unfolds as it Should"
RightTrack ( member #36976) posted at 5:42 AM on Tuesday, June 18th, 2013
Good luck with your move! That sounds good to me too.
BeautifulEmpty ( member #38763) posted at 6:05 AM on Tuesday, June 18th, 2013
Omg! I LONG for this! As soon as my 15 yo is 18, I'm out of here! I hope to god I can figure out how to pull it all together in the remaining years.
I've been counting the days since my oldest (now 21) was 9 years old.
I am so desperate for this fresh start...with or without my husband. It's happening!
Good luck to you! Congrats!
Me: 44 BS
Him: 40 FWS
Ow: 47 head case, no obs
5 DD's: 23, 20, 19, 17, 12
Last D-day: August 2012 with lots of very blurry lines.
RidingHealingRd ( member #33867) posted at 7:17 AM on Tuesday, June 18th, 2013
6mo post Dday My WH resigned his position (A with MOW coworker), put the house on the market, and we moved 1600 miles away. I swear, it was the best thing we could have done.
So many triggers were immediately removed from my world.
I am so happy for you. It truly is a new start...Good luck!
ME: 60 BS
HIM: 67 WH
Married: 35 years
D'Day: 10/29/10
in R 10 years and it's working but he is putting 200% into it (as he should) to make it right again.
The truth hurts, but I have never seen it cause the pain that lies do.
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