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yougogirl (original poster member #11332) posted at 2:43 PM on Monday, June 24th, 2013
I recently had my anniversary and every year I dread the date. This year WH posted something somewhat sappy on FB regarding it.
So if I never reply to the post, I look like a jerk, but if I post some loving BS, then I'm a liar.
I hate this.
Me = doormat BS, early 50s
Him = Narcissistic XWH, same age
Married 25 years, known 28 years, HAPPILY divorced
One DD (18) and 2 pets
Separated 12/15/14, divorced 11/2016
Razor ( member #16345) posted at 3:03 PM on Monday, June 24th, 2013
Yes. BTDT. You are not alone at all in hating anniversaries.
We recently had our 40th. WW hosted a big party at our house. Lots of people there. It was very hard for me. I kept to the edges of the party and ran the bbq and drank beer with the men.
I feel our M ended when she jumped into bed with OM.
After Dday I asked her to plan a vow renewal ceremony. She said she would but it never happened. I guess I was not worth it.
Forgive and forget = Relive and regret.
Hope in reality is the worst of all evils because it prolongs the torments of man.
Friedrich Nietzsche
yougogirl (original poster member #11332) posted at 3:06 PM on Monday, June 24th, 2013
Thanks for the reply, Razor, and I'm sorry to hear that you feel the same.
It is hard to put on a smiling face when everyone is wishing you happy anniversary and you just want to punch WS.
Me = doormat BS, early 50s
Him = Narcissistic XWH, same age
Married 25 years, known 28 years, HAPPILY divorced
One DD (18) and 2 pets
Separated 12/15/14, divorced 11/2016
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