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 purplejacket4 (original poster member #34262) posted at 8:43 PM on Monday, June 24th, 2013

So it's MY birthday and my mom and I are out shopping (for tile nothing exciting) when her MOM calls her to complain that she didn't call him on his birthday. Jerk. Go complain to your betrayed wife. Then when she gets off the phone she's like "oh MOM wants you to have a happy birthday." Blech. Just blech.

Me: BS 50
Her: FWS 53 (both family med MDs; together 23 years)
OW: who cares (PhD)
Dday: 10/11: 11/11 TT for months; NC 8/12
Limboconsiliationish
"band aids don't fix bullet holes" Taylor Swift
I NEVER mind medical ???

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ajsmom ( member #17460) posted at 8:46 PM on Monday, June 24th, 2013

Why is she answering his calls?

ETA: HAPPY BIRTHDAY by the way!

AJ's MOM

[This message edited by ajsmom at 2:52 PM, June 24th (Monday)]

Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.

"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
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Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
One AMAZING DS - 34

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 purplejacket4 (original poster member #34262) posted at 8:51 PM on Monday, June 24th, 2013

Because even after the "affair" ended they still wanted to be "friends."

Me: BS 50
Her: FWS 53 (both family med MDs; together 23 years)
OW: who cares (PhD)
Dday: 10/11: 11/11 TT for months; NC 8/12
Limboconsiliationish
"band aids don't fix bullet holes" Taylor Swift
I NEVER mind medical ???

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notquiteoverit ( member #32919) posted at 9:21 PM on Monday, June 24th, 2013

Happy birthday! Please don't put up with that. For her to be "friends" with her affair partner is extremely disrespectful to you.

Me - BS 50
Him - WS 49
SOW - 52 destitute loser
D-day 1/28/11

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tryingagain74 ( member #33698) posted at 9:30 PM on Monday, June 24th, 2013

Happy birthday! I hope you do something more fun than shop for tile (unless tiling things is your greatest passion... in which case, I hope the tile purchasing was awesome).

FBS; now happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley

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sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 12:31 AM on Tuesday, June 25th, 2013

Happy birthday!

I hope you did something that's more fun that tile-shopping.

fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

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 purplejacket4 (original poster member #34262) posted at 5:38 AM on Tuesday, June 25th, 2013

Ha! Yes I went to an adult version of Chuck E Cheeze (because I'm still a kid) and tonight went out with friends to a place where you get to paint while drinking wine. It was fabulous!

Me: BS 50
Her: FWS 53 (both family med MDs; together 23 years)
OW: who cares (PhD)
Dday: 10/11: 11/11 TT for months; NC 8/12
Limboconsiliationish
"band aids don't fix bullet holes" Taylor Swift
I NEVER mind medical ???

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itainteasy ( member #31094) posted at 12:25 PM on Tuesday, June 25th, 2013

Happy Belated!!!

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