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I love my kids very much they are my world!! I live in a state where I have no family and don't like to leave my kids with anyone . I just had to go to court to reduce visitation because I had to take off of work 6 days a month to watch my kids !! I love bein with them but I was putting myself in a hole ( money) my ex wouldn't work with me , she is very controlling !! In three years I have never missed a day with my kids and never late with child support , she is brain washing my kids now and I am having problems with my oldest!! She has my youngest calling her bf dad !! She says I'm a bad father because I put in to see my kids less but she wants her check every month and I have bills too!!! It's not easy bein a divorced dad with no family to help !!

(((Frank)))

I'm sorry. It is obvious that you love your children. Hopefully, the visitation change will be temporary. Sending you strength.

Having your children call another man Dad is wrong. You could seek legal remedy for this.

Thank you ladies !!!

First, I would like to gently point out that you owe her the money regardless of visitation. That is money for your kids, so pay it on time and let go of any connection you have between that and visitation.

Was there any way to arrange an alternate schedule instead of less? Let's say you had the standard e/o weekend and weds evenings. If you worked late on weds, for example, you can arrange whatever day you want, as long as the ex agrees. The court does not care what the schedule is as long as both parties agree.