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New Beginnings :
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 trebleclef (original poster member #33488) posted at 5:31 PM on Thursday, June 27th, 2013

Just got word that a year after filing and many derailments in the process, the divorce has been granted. Official papers to come after the 30 day waiting period.

Not sure how to feel. Sad? A bit. So sad that it's really over and this is where we are after 43 years, but ecstatic that since it IS we are, it's

finally done.

True remorse isn't followed by a "but".

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MovingUpward ( member #14866) posted at 5:40 PM on Thursday, June 27th, 2013

I understand the emotional mixture. It is where you are and in 30 days you can set your own course to whatever destination that you seek.

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tabitha95 ( member #22033) posted at 6:11 PM on Thursday, June 27th, 2013

I'm sorry. This certainly wasn't what I thought would happen to my marriage either. It was good having the D completed for me since I don't like things in limbo, but it didn't help me emotionally when it was finalized. The legal end of it doesn't match the healing within ourselves.

BW (me) - 45
DS 14, DS 11
D-Day#1: Oct 30, 2008
D-Day#2: June 3, 2011 (same MOW) Separation: June 3, 2011
Divorce finalized: Feb 2012 (due to 6 month waiting period).

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jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 6:27 PM on Thursday, June 27th, 2013

Please the existing thread. See link below.

http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=500295&HL=33488

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