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ALittleLost (original poster member #36152) posted at 4:27 PM on Thursday, July 4th, 2013
Have not seen him in 6 months. He is coming to see the kids and it is time to finally tell the 7 yr old (who thinks Daddy has been away at work).
The next 10 days are going to be really hard.
He has been cycling from nasty to nice. I don't want to see him.
God grant me strength ......
BS Me 42
Married 12 years (on my own since 2012)
DS1 11 yrs, DS2 5 yrs
DD1 Sep 2011 all a lie
DD2 Jun 2012 found his secret email
3 Confirmed EA/PA over span of 2.5 yrs
Status: D
deeplysad ( member #16590) posted at 4:30 PM on Thursday, July 4th, 2013
Me: BW - I'm much too young to feel this damn old
Him: FWH - Midlife crisis with a pathetic porn wannabe
D-Day: August 2004; Lots of false R until February 2005.
Jennifer99 ( member #39551) posted at 4:30 PM on Thursday, July 4th, 2013
Huge hugs. I wish I could send you strength. That sucks.
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 4:31 PM on Thursday, July 4th, 2013
Focus on the kids while he's there. And remember that once this bandaid is pulled off, which is absolutely necessary but painful, you are moving a step forward. Sending you and your kids strength and comfort.
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
fallingquickly ( member #36599) posted at 7:23 PM on Thursday, July 4th, 2013
Scars remind us where we've been. They don't have to dictate where we're going. (Criminal Minds)
I saw him, I could not unsee him. -StrongButBroken
There came a point when it was too painful to love him, so I stopped.
soveryweary ( member #32265) posted at 11:17 PM on Thursday, July 4th, 2013
Sending strength sweetie, and hoping that sick feeling goes away.
Divorced 1/3/14 after 31 years of marriage.
ALittleLost (original poster member #36152) posted at 3:27 PM on Friday, July 5th, 2013
On the positive side, DS took it pretty well. Not sure he really understands all the implications yet. He didn't cry. He didn't really react. He had some questions. And the tough part .... his first question ... "Can I go live with Daddy for a while?"
Ouch ....
But he has not seen his Dad in 6 months - he is a little boy and has missed him terribly.
BS Me 42
Married 12 years (on my own since 2012)
DS1 11 yrs, DS2 5 yrs
DD1 Sep 2011 all a lie
DD2 Jun 2012 found his secret email
3 Confirmed EA/PA over span of 2.5 yrs
Status: D
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