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Flatlined (original poster member #27637) posted at 5:29 PM on Friday, July 5th, 2013
Am approaching our 4 year anti-versary. Not sure how I am feeling (today). Marriage is good, very good. FWH is really a new man, honest, emotionally stable... faithful. We are good together, in this to win this.
And yet the scars (wounds?) of the As are with me. I searched the word infidelity in my library catalogue and discovered a 2013 release entitled, Vow: A Memoir of Marriage (and Other Affairs), about a wife who discovered her Hs affair(s) and an outside child. She was also unfaithful during the M. The reviews on Amazon are interesting.
Anyone here read this? Thoughts?
Me BW Him FWH [Dr.NewMan]Married 31 y/4 children DDay #1 7/20/09 DDay #2 7/28/09 (2 As,both with *PSEUDO*friends)
ReconciledTen years out, surviving & thriving.
redrock ( member #21538) posted at 1:13 AM on Saturday, July 6th, 2013
Hi Flatlined.
I have not read that particular book.
I really enjoyed "How to be an Adult in Relationships" by David Richo.
I think I read it in year 4, maybe year 3.
I know I would not have been open to some of its tenets earlier in R. In particular, Acceptance.
When I did read it. I was ready. For me the scars stay as well. But this book was very helpful to me in moving forward. Acceptance not only of what happened in the A but also the very flawed R that followed.
I don't respect anyone that can't spell a word more than one way:)
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