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Chrysalis123 (original poster member #27148) posted at 5:14 AM on Sunday, July 7th, 2013
So, a man I met through OLD came to vist me, since we are long distance.
This was our 4th meeting. He is extremely respectful of the fact I have DD16 and DD18, and he stayed in a hotel, and we would go on day trips while he was in my town.
DD18 lives with her father in the next town over and was unaware of my new friend. She unexpectedly showed up while my date and I were sitting on the patio of my home chatting.
He rose, offered his hand and greeted her. She got what she needed from the house and left.
Well, apparently she texted her sister the following:
DD18: I need you to answer because it's an EMERGENCY!!!!
DD16: What???
DD18: OMG, mom has a dude at the house!
I cannot stop laughing about this since I am in my 50's and my new friend is in his young 60's. He thinks it is great he is a "dude"!
[This message edited by Chrysalis123 at 3:01 PM, July 7th (Sunday)]
Someone I once loved gave me/ a box full of darkness/ It took me years to understand/ That this, too, was a gift. - Mary Oliver
Just for the record darling, not all positive changes feel positive in the beginning -S C Lourie
Sad in AZ ( member #24239) posted at 5:15 AM on Sunday, July 7th, 2013
You're dating the Big Lebowsky?? 
You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.
Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-63
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011
Chrysalis123 (original poster member #27148) posted at 5:18 AM on Sunday, July 7th, 2013
I guess I am!! 
Someone I once loved gave me/ a box full of darkness/ It took me years to understand/ That this, too, was a gift. - Mary Oliver
Just for the record darling, not all positive changes feel positive in the beginning -S C Lourie
OnceInALifetime ( member #26023) posted at 5:20 AM on Sunday, July 7th, 2013
EMERGENCY!
OMG, kids are awesome I can't imagine how mine will react when by the age of 100 I finally bring a date home.
gma56 ( member #19595) posted at 6:36 AM on Sunday, July 7th, 2013
DD18: I need you to answer because it's an EMERGENCY!!!!
Gotta love when kids discover their parent has a life too !
Since it's been 5 yrs and my kids are 30+ yrs old..they would probably say, it's about damn time Mom.
BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.
wildbananas ( member #10552) posted at 7:24 AM on Sunday, July 7th, 2013
The dude abides.
So Mom... gasp... has a life! EMERGENCY!
Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan
persevere ( member #31468) posted at 8:32 AM on Sunday, July 7th, 2013
Too bad she didn't catch something more compromising - lol ;-). (Joking btw)
DDay:2011
Status: D 2011
Remarried to a kind and wonderful man - 2017
Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron
It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K.
gahurts ( member #33699) posted at 2:56 PM on Sunday, July 7th, 2013
"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi
"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 4:14 PM on Sunday, July 7th, 2013
EMERGENCY! That is hilarious.
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
missherlots ( member #30591) posted at 4:39 PM on Sunday, July 7th, 2013
that is cute!
I just hope they don't impose to you a curfew too early. 
Pain and suffering is part of life, but I choose to feel love and compassion for all people excluding no one.
Kajem ( member #36134) posted at 7:33 PM on Sunday, July 7th, 2013
When they start calling you every 5 minutes after 1am... you're in TROUBLE...
don't ask me how I know 
I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - UnknownRelationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.
jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 8:01 PM on Sunday, July 7th, 2013
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