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 Phillycat (original poster new member #40083) posted at 1:18 AM on Sunday, July 28th, 2013

I don't even know what to post

If I start typing what happened in my marriage this will be extremely long, as I have so much to get out . I feel alone and confused. I can't even type this without crying.

Please tell me what length for a post is acceptable. Thanks

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somanyyears ( member #26970) posted at 1:34 AM on Sunday, July 28th, 2013

..there is no scale when it comes to acceptable length of posts.. ..you can put your whole story on as a post or put it in your profile..then ask for more specific help with your questions, and feelings..

sorry you are here but you'll be glad you found SI.

..lots of folks will be here for you, although, the weekends tend to be a tad slower, less traffic..

..you can ask pretty much anything here.. outside of politics and religions..

welcome Pc..

smy

[This message edited by somanyyears at 7:48 PM, July 27th (Saturday)]

trust no other human- love only your pets. Reconciled I think! Me 77 Her 74 Married 52 yrs. 18 yr LTA with bff/lawyer. Little fucker died at 57.Brain tumour!

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UndecidedinMA ( member #33732) posted at 1:38 AM on Sunday, July 28th, 2013

As long as you need it to be.

Sorry to see you here. There is a wealth of knowledge, experience, strength & compassion on these boards.

ME - BSO
Him - FWSO
OW - DBC Xwife
DDAY 09/14/11 ONS w/DBCxWOW with 4 mos EA
Solidly in R

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DecadeCentrifuge ( new member #39406) posted at 1:39 AM on Sunday, July 28th, 2013

Take as much space as you need, man. Just remember to breathe while you type.

People here a very understanding and will take the time to read your story.

Me: BH - Happily Remarried, but dealing with old stuff

“I'm losing my mind in a bedroom with a ghost
and I'm losing my mind in a bottle while I choke
I stayed years with you, no one knows (but I want them to).”
– Thought Industry

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AFrayedKnot ( member #36622) posted at 1:41 AM on Sunday, July 28th, 2013

Welcome to the best place you never wanted to find yourself.

Read and post and ask all you want. There is tons of experience and hope here.

One little tip- try to break really long posts into paragraphs. It makes it easier to read and you will get more feedback.

BS 48fWS 44 (SurprisinglyOkay)DsD DSA whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better."Knowing is half the battle"

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burnt_toast ( member #16891) posted at 2:21 AM on Sunday, July 28th, 2013

Hello Phillycat,

Welcome to SI. Sorry you are hurting.

This is a safe place to post your burdens. Let us help you carry them.

I may have not gone where I intended to go, but I think I have ended up where I needed to be.
- Douglas Adams

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 Phillycat (original poster new member #40083) posted at 5:02 PM on Sunday, July 28th, 2013

Thank a bunch guys... I just added my story to my profile and I am going to be asking some questions. Again thanks for the support..there's comfort knowing I have somewhere to turn

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confused615 ( member #30826) posted at 5:04 PM on Sunday, July 28th, 2013

Welcome,Phillycat,

Don't worry about the length of your posts..you say whatever you need to say..and we will help.

The only thing we ask is you divide your posts into paragraphs..it makes it A LOT easier to read that way,lol.

You're safe here. Im glad you found us,but sorry for the reason you're here.

BS(me)44
FWH 48
4 kids
M: June 2001
D-Day: 8/10/10



..that feeling you get in your stomach, when you heart's broken. It's like all the butterflies just died.


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