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hurtbs (original poster member #10866) posted at 4:26 PM on Monday, July 29th, 2013
It's been a month since xSO and I broke up. We broke up because I moved for a job - 1,500 miles away. Neither of us wanted to do the indefinite long distance dance. He had some things career wise he wants to explore - making his life really uncertin and crazy right now.
It's been 30 days since I've seen him. I spoke to him once for about 15 minutes.
I miss talking to him every day. Texting him. Joking with him. Kissing him. Being held...
I know the beak up was the right decision. Most of the time - 99.99% of the time, I'm okay. But there's always this... echo of him and his presence. I think "Oh, SO would like this" or "SO would love to go see x." Even grocery shopping I stop myself from buying things I know he would like to eat.
Anyway... just posting. Venting. Sharing.
Me - 40 something. WXH DDay 2006, Divorced 2012
WBF DDay #1 9/2022 #2 11/2022
Single
nutmegkitty ( member #33882) posted at 4:40 PM on Monday, July 29th, 2013
I'm sorry you are hurting. ((hugs))
Me - happy!
2 DDs
Very happily divorced from an NPD since 2013.
foreverempty ( member #34426) posted at 5:02 PM on Monday, July 29th, 2013
Me BS: 35
Her WW: 34
D Day 5th December 2011
Current status: Filled for divorce 23rd Jan 2012. Response from WW was not to beg for forgiveness, but deleting me from Facebook.
better4me ( member #30341) posted at 5:08 PM on Monday, July 29th, 2013
DDay 11/17/2010 BW:58
Happily remarried!
Amazonia ( member #32810) posted at 5:10 PM on Monday, July 29th, 2013
It sucks so bad when it's just circumstances, because you don't get the "I'm better off without him" feelings to help you through the hard parts. 
(((hurtbs)))
"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ
jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 5:48 PM on Monday, July 29th, 2013
cmego ( member #30346) posted at 6:09 PM on Monday, July 29th, 2013
me...BS, 46 years old.
Divorced
persevere ( member #31468) posted at 2:02 AM on Tuesday, July 30th, 2013
DDay:2011
Status: D 2011
Remarried to a kind and wonderful man - 2017
Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron
It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K.
hexed ( member #19258) posted at 3:57 AM on Tuesday, July 30th, 2013
((hurbs))
that just sucks. i'm sorry you're going through it :(
But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned
“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler
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