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meplustwo (original poster member #39082) posted at 5:19 PM on Monday, July 29th, 2013
So, one of the nice things about my separation is moving to a new community and meeting new folks. I moved to a very small town. Very picturesque new England. Kids ride their bikes down the sidewalk. Neighbors greet each other with hellos....but now I am about an hour from my office and I don't really want to work there anymore. I just found a job at a private day school about a mile from home. And my kids could go there for free if I work there! I so want this job! Crossed fingers, here's hoping!
Me(34) - BS
Him(35) - WH
Married: 9 years
Two Kids: 4 and 6
D-Day #1: 7/12, D-Day #2: 4/24/13
Affair: EA to PA with coworker
Status of A: Says he broke it off after I went to her house and confronted both of them
Faithful w/Love ( member #33128) posted at 5:33 PM on Monday, July 29th, 2013
fingers are crossed! 
BS(ME)41 WH(HIM)38
DD 21 and DS 16
Separated Aug 2012
Moved back home Oct 31 2013
Separated again June 2014. Heading toward divorce.
False R. Still Lying.
"You never know how strong you are until being strong is all you have left"
IrishLass518 ( member #34373) posted at 5:34 PM on Monday, July 29th, 2013
Fingers crossed for you and I am hoping to hear on 2 jobs this week so maybe we can send job mojo to each other 
Me: 46 BS Divorced
Him: 45 Married OW
DDay: 07/04/2008
Divorced: 06/15/2011
5 kids: IrishLass 27,IrishLad 25, IrishLass 23, IrishLad 21 and IrishLad 12
"You can't run from trouble..there ain't no place that far"
Amazonia ( member #32810) posted at 5:41 PM on Monday, July 29th, 2013
"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ
Rebreather ( member #30817) posted at 5:43 PM on Monday, July 29th, 2013
Me BS
Him WH
2 ddays in '07
Rec'd.
"The cure for the pain, is the pain." -Rumi
LAFA ( member #31868) posted at 10:23 PM on Monday, July 29th, 2013
Sending all the mojo I can muster! All the best!
When you put someone on a pedestal, they quickly learn two things. The view is mighty good from up there, and it is a fine vantage from which to kick.
meplustwo (original poster member #39082) posted at 11:01 PM on Monday, July 29th, 2013
Thanks for the wishes and job mojo to you too IrishLass!
Me(34) - BS
Him(35) - WH
Married: 9 years
Two Kids: 4 and 6
D-Day #1: 7/12, D-Day #2: 4/24/13
Affair: EA to PA with coworker
Status of A: Says he broke it off after I went to her house and confronted both of them
still2suspicious ( member #31722) posted at 11:16 PM on Monday, July 29th, 2013
Sending mojo to you, and IrishLass.
Good luck. And free tuition? Man, how can you beat that??
Me: BSHim: WHDDay: LTEA Every storm runs out of rain - Gary Allen
D final 2/23
petite71 ( member #36475) posted at 11:34 PM on Monday, July 29th, 2013
I hope you get this job. Crossing my fingers with the rest of the SI folks.
1st DD 03/24/2012 2nd DD 07/13/2012 TT A. in 2002 same girl when we were dating.
Status:Getting Stronger...we can get through this & are healing together
BS(me):41
WS(Husband):40
LTA 10 yrs EA/PA 9 times. friends with benefits.
Us..Together 12 yr
jjsr ( member #34353) posted at 1:13 AM on Tuesday, July 30th, 2013
Me: BS
Him: WS
Married since 1985
Parents to 2 adult sons and 3 of the cutest cats you have ever seen
D-day 8/6/11 Truth about ONS and 9/21/11 Truth about EA and 10/28/15 NEW dday.
Just surviving.
Deanna ( member #26854) posted at 1:42 AM on Tuesday, July 30th, 2013
So sending you good mojo!
DDay - 11/4/09
BS-49 DDay
fWS-46 DDay
EA/PA with childhood sweetheart/ kissed
R - 11/25/09
Life is not a dress rehearsal
wanttofeelwhole ( member #31830) posted at 2:03 AM on Tuesday, July 30th, 2013
Fingers crossed. Good luck.
Sorry I don't edit the typos
Love is giving someone the power to destroy you...but trusting them not to.-Unknown
For every good reason there is to lie, there is a better reason to tell the truth.-Bo Bennett
Memory is a complicated thing, a rel
laney57 ( member #35617) posted at 3:50 AM on Tuesday, July 30th, 2013
Prayers!
Funny story... I got a call from my friend in another state (the state I left for WH relocation - why???). Anyways, she left me a message saying she got a ft job and that she had a feeling that I am next. Well, sh*t... Guess who got a FT job offer today?? ME!! You're next meplustwo!!
Update 01/21/17
Me - BS, 46
Him - WH, 48
Married - 23 years
D-Day - 05/12/2012
Trying to find me still
Separated 03/2014 (he moved out of state for job)
Tried and tried and failed long distance 09/2015
Have no idea
SoVerySadNow ( member #36711) posted at 3:51 AM on Tuesday, July 30th, 2013
Me:BW
Him:WH
D-day(s),after years of TT and Gaslighting was Labor Day Weekend 2012, continuing for a week after. *Dammit! More TT 3/9/13
Really trending toward D- planning about it is my "happy place" now.
noescape ( member #34888) posted at 4:59 AM on Tuesday, July 30th, 2013
prayers to both you and ILass...
hope you land them jobs, also send me some since I got 2 lined up but no word yet... :(
RidingHealingRd ( member #33867) posted at 5:52 AM on Tuesday, July 30th, 2013
Wishing you, and Irishlass, good luck! May those jobs be yours.
ME: 60 BS
HIM: 67 WH
Married: 35 years
D'Day: 10/29/10
in R 10 years and it's working but he is putting 200% into it (as he should) to make it right again.
The truth hurts, but I have never seen it cause the pain that lies do.
Spelljean ( member #35624) posted at 2:15 PM on Tuesday, July 30th, 2013
Sounds perfect! Best of luck!
WH: 41
me: BS, 45
Together 18 1/2 years, married 17
DDAY 8/2/12
OW: EA- friend of 4 months
Status: separated
Ladyogilvy ( member #31558) posted at 4:07 PM on Tuesday, July 30th, 2013
Me: BW 57. Him: alcoholic, sober now, WH 65Married stopped counting after too many disappointing anniversaries. Two sons, 24&25 years old. He's still keeping secrets and only admits to what I have indisputable evidence of.
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