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 FieldsOfLavender (original poster member #39154) posted at 1:19 AM on Thursday, August 1st, 2013

This was the subject header from my stbx while he is visiting his family with our child. He's visiting his father because he is in bad health. I thought he was going to tell me that his father passed away. Instead, he said that he has already shared his news with his father, step mother, sisters and our child and that he and his whore will be starting a new life.

He announced that our child will be having a half brother or sister.

I am the last to know.

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nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 1:37 AM on Thursday, August 1st, 2013

Oh, honey.

(((((((fields)))))))

You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane

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ArkLaMiss ( member #14918) posted at 1:47 AM on Thursday, August 1st, 2013

Lav, honey, she's got a liar and a known cheater. There's also an open position for a new mistress now. You, however, will move on to bigger and better things. Hugs. The glitter will soon rub off on their fantasy. Trust me!

Just HOW stupid do you think I am, exactly?

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 FieldsOfLavender (original poster member #39154) posted at 1:53 AM on Thursday, August 1st, 2013

I've been unemployed and my unemployment will run out SOON. I signed the separation agreement and signed away my alimony. I was too trusting.

Now what? Will the judge be empathetic to my unemployed position and revisit the agreement at divorce?

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 FieldsOfLavender (original poster member #39154) posted at 1:23 PM on Thursday, August 1st, 2013

This news hits me on several levels. I didn't expect this level of low from him. Naive of me at my age and his betrayal.

I wanted a 2nd child and STBX gave me a laundry list of why we couldn't:

1. too expensive

2. world is overpopulated

3. babies create more pollution

4. baby will be born "retarded" (I was around 40), but his whore will be 40 when she gives birth

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puzzlepieces ( member #37829) posted at 10:23 PM on Thursday, August 1st, 2013

((hugs))

I can't imagine how this must feel. I am sure that my WH will be fathering a child with his OW or another unsuspecting woman. He's introducing the OW to his family next week! He's in denial that he had the affair so he tells everyone he started dating her after we split up. :-) But like Ark says, as much as it hurts, just remember you are SO MUCH BETTER OFF without him and are moving on to better things. And you wouldn't want to be her in a million years.

Me = BS, 40
WH/X, 41
1 D, 1 S
D-Day1: 11/17/12
False R: 1/2013 - 3/2013
D-Day2: 3/2/13 - back with same OW; admits to ONS 3 years prior (different OW)
3/18/13 - file for D
D-Day3: 7/16/2013 - Learn of 3rd PA
8/2014 - D goes thru

Healing by

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