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inmisery1 (original poster member #30905) posted at 7:01 AM on Thursday, August 8th, 2013
Well it happened again, My intuition said something was up, it was right. I went downstairs and caught him having a conversation with his girlfriend. I'm numb
inmisery1 (original poster member #30905) posted at 7:04 AM on Thursday, August 8th, 2013
Oh yea, it's my birthday, Happy Birthday to me
TS68 ( member #40211) posted at 7:08 AM on Thursday, August 8th, 2013
Hey inmisery1... Happy birthday!!! Knowing is better than living in lies. You just got your present. It just was thrown at you hard and hit you in the stomach. But, someday, no matter how things turn out, you may send a thank you note... You deserve better!
Take care of yourself 
Me: 48
Him: 50
Married 22 years too many
DS19, DS17, DD10
Divorced
Know your worth.
RidingHealingRd ( member #33867) posted at 7:18 AM on Thursday, August 8th, 2013
I am so sorry that you are facing this again. How cruel can a person be?
You DO deserve better.
Sorry that you learned of this on your birthday.
{{{inmisery1}}}
ME: 60 BS
HIM: 67 WH
Married: 35 years
D'Day: 10/29/10
in R 10 years and it's working but he is putting 200% into it (as he should) to make it right again.
The truth hurts, but I have never seen it cause the pain that lies do.
OnAnIsland ( member #34319) posted at 7:36 AM on Thursday, August 8th, 2013
Double post
[This message edited by OnAnIsland at 1:37 AM, August 8th (Thursday)]
D-day: Christmas 2011
D-day 2: 3/28/2013
Married for over 15 years
2 beautiful sons
You may not control all the events that happen to you, but you can decide not to be reduced by them. Maya Angelou
OnAnIsland ( member #34319) posted at 7:36 AM on Thursday, August 8th, 2013
So sorry that this happened again and on your birthday. Sending clarity and strength to you. Take care of yourself.
D-day: Christmas 2011
D-day 2: 3/28/2013
Married for over 15 years
2 beautiful sons
You may not control all the events that happen to you, but you can decide not to be reduced by them. Maya Angelou
brainless twit ( member #12085) posted at 8:25 AM on Thursday, August 8th, 2013
My first D-Day was on my son's 8th birthday. He turned 15 yesterday and it still nearly smothered me just remembering... (Having a new, recent D-Day didn't help either.) It's bad enough to have so many ruined memories and days, but to have them coincide with a time that should be happy and special is just nine kinds of wrong.
I'm so sorry, IM. I don't know exactly how you feel but I can imagine. I wish I could give you a hug! We are here for you.
"Sometimes I guess there just aren't enough rocks." --Forrest Gump
D-Day 8/7/06
Divorced 12/14/09
R Began 5/21/11
D-Day #2 7/9/13 (OW #2 is OW #1's first cousin)
R Began (again) 5/03/14
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