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i dropped my mom off at home. it went well. other than her breaking through all the traps to get into her room my brother said oh well. if she wants to sleep there then fine. I gave him instructions of: shes home now she things she can handle it by herself dont do anything for her. that was the deal.

Im going out with friends to celebrate.

Enjoy your night out ! Much deserved !

just got home and crack my mother email

im super pissed. next day i have off and have the money i will give a piece of my mind

she had my aunt call the cops on me cause of my son.

WOW

Shes done in my book. lowest of the low cause i refused to give her way and use MYYYYYY money to buy her things!!! FUCK you you FUCKING WHORE. HOW fucking dare you.

I have to pay a new bed sheets and close to tearing out the carpet cause your nasty un greatful ass wont shower thank you. fuck me ever paying you back the only reason you have a CLEAN home is cause of your kids the only reaon you have a house is cause of my DAD fuck you you worthless piece of crap.

how doies she repay me use my name to get beauty products for cheap.

Im call the police worthless scum!!!

Your not my mom you just gave birth to me your not family.

I hung out with my dads best friend and my brother tonight. Things I cant say now that he told me about my mom WHAT A FUCK WHORE

(((eyenight)))

So very sorry you're dealing with such a toxic Mom.

It's very much like a WS, you can't fix them and you aren't to blame for the their actions. It's not your burden.

Time to put distance between you and her.

Big Hugs

Gma

there is going to be a lot of distance.

Im so broke right now I had to have a friend buy me new sheets for my bed. I had to throw out my new comforter that I got a month before she got here my sheets everything. I am working on buying a new bed. I spent 4 hours cleaning it nothing will help it still smells like shit. so it has to go. I am not at all happy. I am finding little things from my home disappeared. I looked every where for them.

My mother also cleared out my pantry, she took all my food that wasnt expired and kept behind hers that was expired from 08 Awesome.

Im done. I dont owe her a thingfrom this poinmt on

Yes ! Reclaim your space and know you won't ever have to let this happen again with her. You do have the that control of relationship.

Too bad we can't pick our families like we do our friends and adopted family members.

Gma

A few weeks ago, another poster was mentioning that her daughter had an accident on their couch (#2) and trying to get the smell out, people recommended a pet odor cleaner - I wonder if that would work for your bed too? Cheaper to buy an expensive cleaner than a new bed!

thats the first thing I used. The smell is still there.

Im going to try a mixure of water and bleach hopefully that does the trick.

At this point there is no relationship. My sister and I are both done with her, my sister was done a long time ago Im just finally understanding why. My brother is done with her but not to the same extant.

I dont know how my dad dealt with her for so long.

Natures Miracle and sunlight will do wonders.

Also, white vinegar is a fabulous laundry deodorizer. Use it in the rinse cycle like you would use fabric softener. When it dries you wont smell the vinegar.

Best of luck.