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UndecidedinMA (original poster member #33732) posted at 3:49 PM on Monday, August 12th, 2013
So the OWxWW sends a letter, she can no longer get through on another device. We have since moved so it was forwarded from the old address. Does she get notified of new address? 
The letter was all very sweet and made me sick saying she hopes the old relationships can someday be repaired( YEAH RIGHT BITCH). The pretext was informing him that their son & his POS abusive wife are expecting a baby in Sept. We knew this since FWS is in contact with her parents(she is not).
I just want to respond with a new NC letter & a few other thoughts. 
He just wants to stay crickets.
ME - BSO
Him - FWSO
OW - DBC Xwife
DDAY 09/14/11 ONS w/DBCxWOW with 4 mos EA
Solidly in R
mrcpu ( member #38157) posted at 4:07 PM on Monday, August 12th, 2013
Firstly, I'm pretty sure they don't get any notice of the redirection. They don't up here in Canada anyway.
Secondly, I'm sorry... "OWxWW" ?
I'd do up a nice, professional sounding, non-emotional, f-off letter and send it with no return address.
D-Day 1: 22 Dec 2012 - Confirmed WW was having an affair with my xBFF
D-Day 2: 22 July 2014 - Caught WW working on a hookup online with local real estate agent.
D-Day 3: 18 Dec 2014 - Caught WW Breaking NC with my xBFF for past 2 months via text.
authenticnow ( member #16024) posted at 4:08 PM on Monday, August 12th, 2013
UndecidedinMA,
Please follow the Reconciliation Forum guidelines.
A wonderful place to share your struggles, success stories and triggers while trying to reconcile.It's a long road, but you can do it! There is to be no venting about or name calling the OP in this forum.
Thank you.
DS, you are forever in my heart. Thank you for sharing your beautiful spirit with me. I will always try to live by the example you have set. I love you and miss you every day and am sorry you had to go so soon, it just doesn't seem fair.
Rebreather ( member #30817) posted at 4:09 PM on Monday, August 12th, 2013
Me BS
Him WH
2 ddays in '07
Rec'd.
"The cure for the pain, is the pain." -Rumi
Knowing ( member #37044) posted at 4:23 PM on Monday, August 12th, 2013
DDay is a long way off for you. Crickets is the best way to go.
BW, R last 4 years of marriage out of 15... FINALLY, HAPPILY DIVORCING!
We are in R.
UndecidedinMA (original poster member #33732) posted at 4:38 PM on Monday, August 12th, 2013
OWxWW = She is the Other Woman but she is also his ex-wife who was a Wayward, you could add a few more since she was also a drug/sex addict, as well as totally narcissistic.
ME - BSO
Him - FWSO
OW - DBC Xwife
DDAY 09/14/11 ONS w/DBCxWOW with 4 mos EA
Solidly in R
HurtsBad ( member #20687) posted at 4:44 PM on Monday, August 12th, 2013
I vote for crickets. There is nothing to be gained by replying.
If she is unable to contact you any other way, and she gets no reply to this letter, she might give up.
Best of luck in your continuing healing.
Good judgment comes from experience.Experience comes from bad judgment.
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 4:49 PM on Monday, August 12th, 2013
NC all the way - anything you send can be an excuse for further contact, if that's what she wants.
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
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