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tesla (original poster member #34697) posted at 8:00 PM on Wednesday, August 14th, 2013
I've kept up my friendship with ex-shat's step mom. I'm the daughter she never had and she has been able to keep up a relationship with Teslet. Haven't seen ex-shat's dad since last Sept...possibly even August. Ex-shat started lying about me to his dad and his dad was buying it. Teslet and I are going to meet ex-shat's stepmom today for a late lunch...she just texted and said his dad is coming too. I'm nervous and not sure about this.
Just going to keep the focus on Teslet the whole time until I can gauge what is going on with ex-shat's dad.
Mojo please.
"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear
tryingagain74 ( member #33698) posted at 8:05 PM on Wednesday, August 14th, 2013
You have been mojoed! 
FBS; now happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley
Crescita ( member #32616) posted at 8:16 PM on Wednesday, August 14th, 2013
Mojo your way but you don't need it. Ex-shat's pop wouldn't invite himself along if he wasn't beginning to see the truth of the situation.
“Happiness cannot be pursued; it must ensue.” ― Viktor E. Frankl, Man's Search for Meaning
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 8:20 PM on Wednesday, August 14th, 2013
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
lieshurt ( member #14003) posted at 8:20 PM on Wednesday, August 14th, 2013
No one changes unless they want to. Not if you beg them. Not if you shame them. Not if you use reason, emotion, or tough love. There is only one thing that makes someone change: their own realization that they need to.
hexed ( member #19258) posted at 8:44 PM on Wednesday, August 14th, 2013
But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned
“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler
Kajem ( member #36134) posted at 10:22 PM on Wednesday, August 14th, 2013
I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - UnknownRelationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.
dlmos ( member #36839) posted at 10:31 PM on Wednesday, August 14th, 2013
BH (32)
DS - 7, DD - 6
Divorced
tesla (original poster member #34697) posted at 10:48 PM on Wednesday, August 14th, 2013
Thanks everyone! It went well. I could tell he was as apprehensive as I was. But we always got along so well so it wasn't too hard to find lots of safe ground to talk about.
I also think he realizes the only way he is going to consistently see his grandson is through me.
The things that ex-shat was saying about me to his dad were so incredibly hurtful. It hurt that his dad believed them...I know he wanted to hang on to his son (they've had a very rocky relationship over the years.) But I guess it just goes to show that blaming the ex-wife for ALL your woes and problems doesn't work forever with reasonable people.
"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear
phmh ( member #34146) posted at 11:51 PM on Wednesday, August 14th, 2013
I'm seeing this late, and so glad it went well!
Me: BW, divorced, now fabulous and happy!
Married: 11 years, no kids
Character is destiny
better4me ( member #30341) posted at 1:20 AM on Thursday, August 15th, 2013
too late for mojo, but I see it went swimmingly. Happy it didn't give you hives!
DDay 11/17/2010 BW:58
Happily remarried!
Amazonia ( member #32810) posted at 2:05 AM on Thursday, August 15th, 2013
I'm so glad it went well, Tes
"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ
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