Cookies are required for login or registration. Please read and agree to our cookie policy to continue.

Newest Member: Victor Bear

General :
suicidal wtf

This Topic is Archived
  Return to Forums   Return to General
default

 ZenMumWalking (original poster member #25341) posted at 4:36 PM on Friday, August 16th, 2013

Had IC today, difficulty dealing with phone calls/skype from WH (who is in Brasil for 2 more weeks)..... Sometime I just don't know how much longer I can last.

Big fucking trigger last few calls: he says 'I miss you'.

Should seem normal, right? EXCEPT: He has NEVER EVER said that to me in *30 years*.

So WTF?? I just don't know if there's any point any more.

Me (BS), Him (WH): late-50's
3 DS: 26, 25, 22
M: 30+ (19 1/2 at Dday)
Dday: Dec 2008
Wanted R, not gonna happen (in permanent S)
Used to be DeadMumWalking, doing better now

posts: 8533   ·   registered: Aug. 28th, 2009   ·   location: EU
id 6451001
default

StepAside ( member #29826) posted at 4:40 PM on Friday, August 16th, 2013

((DeadMumWalking))

Oh honey, I hear your pain. Is there someone close by that you can be with Right Now?

Me 48yrs, king of douchebagastan- 50yrs STD infected bankrupt NPD sociopathic drunk thief
countless A's, he is a predator that targets losers like himself
Last Dday 04/12/2010-Divorcing if/when his cumdumpsters lend him some $ or balls to file

posts: 1522   ·   registered: Oct. 12th, 2010   ·   location: Ingersoll Ontario
id 6451006
default

Crushed1 ( member #6449) posted at 4:40 PM on Friday, August 16th, 2013

((((mum))))

~~"You can't run away from yourself"!!! Me to my H when he descended into adultery insanity.
~~Prov.15:13 "By sorrow of the heart the spirit is broken"
~~"The day breaks-your mind aches"
~STRENGTH~PEACE~HOPE~FAITH

posts: 10024   ·   registered: Feb. 13th, 2005   ·   location: Texas
id 6451009
default

nomistakeaboutit ( member #36857) posted at 5:45 PM on Friday, August 16th, 2013

Hang tough. Seek immediate help from your IC and doctor.

Your children need you, always.

Me: BH 65.........Her: WW 55
DD: 15.......DS: 12. (5 and 2 on DDay)
Married for six years.
DDay: 12-25-11 Divorced: 7-15-12
...................................

posts: 1306   ·   registered: Sep. 18th, 2012   ·   location: U.S.A.
id 6451116
default

heartache101 ( member #26465) posted at 5:57 PM on Friday, August 16th, 2013

So is he still working with OW??

You have to decide when enough is enough...

This is all on him not you. You are enough honey..It is him that is broken please do not let him break you too..

Call your counselor set up an emergency appointment.

If he is putting this type of stress and thoughts in your mind then by golly stay separated and 180 him and don't give a rats ass what he is doing. Focus on you and what makes you happy!!

For the comment I think sometimes they get older an they really do wake up and see the light..Sometimes

Maybe he truly does miss you???

Be happy and do things that make you laugh today..

Exercise drink plenty of fluids and laugh if possible it helps with depression.

There are degrees to which you let people back into your life and degrees to which you let them back into your heart-which, of course, are not the same thing

posts: 3225   ·   registered: Dec. 8th, 2009   ·   location: Indiana
id 6451140
This Topic is Archived
  Return to Forums   Return to General
Cookies on SurvivingInfidelity.com®

SurvivingInfidelity.com® uses cookies to enhance your visit to our website. This is a requirement for participants to login, post and use other features. Visitors may opt out, but the website will be less functional for you.

v.1.001.20250404a 2002-2025 SurvivingInfidelity.com® All Rights Reserved. • Privacy Policy