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nekorb (original poster member #40306) posted at 1:37 AM on Saturday, August 24th, 2013
I've decided I'm coining the acronym BFB for our use here on the boards...or wherever you may need it in your life....
BFB: Big Fucking Blowup
I was thinking it has lots of uses...
It could be an event in and of itself...
We had a BFB last night.
It could also refer to the entirety of a situation...
My LIfe has become a BFB.
It could refer to the need to let out pent up emotions
I just need to have a BFB. OR
You just need to get it out of your system and have a BFB.
I dunno....it just seemed...appropriate to my ife right now....
Me: BS 44; Him: WH 47 M - 22 Years
D-day: 7/2013; D filed 7/2014; Divorced 7-27-16
...the WS affair starts off in a dreamland where everything is all Golly, Wow! and Meant To Be! and Soul Mates drop from the trees to frolic in the mist. -devotedman
Nature_Girl ( member #32554) posted at 2:06 AM on Saturday, August 24th, 2013
Good one! I'd say my entire life has been entirely blown the fuck up. So sorry you had a BFB last night.
Me = BS
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU
kg201 ( member #40173) posted at 2:21 AM on Saturday, August 24th, 2013
Good timing. I had and am still in the middle of the first BFB this evening.
Sheesh.
K
Me: BH, 40
Her: Ms. Daisy
Together 18 years, married 15+
LTA 3.5 years, living together
Dday: 7/28/13
Ds17, DS12, DD12
Divorced! 2/24/2015
Apology. You keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it means.
Skan ( member #35812) posted at 2:36 AM on Saturday, August 24th, 2013
I can see BFB getting a lot of use around here.
Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
mandan66 ( member #40075) posted at 2:43 AM on Saturday, August 24th, 2013
That is a good one---I have a BFB coming up on Sunday night, as my STBXW and I are to engage in 'mediation' about child support. Am really looking forward to it. 
Me: 47; WW: 48
2 DS: 9, 14
M:18--T:19
DDay: Jan/13
Divorced and Done!--7/13
nekorb (original poster member #40306) posted at 12:16 PM on Saturday, August 24th, 2013
Yup. I knew it was going to have lots of applications. Wonder how long it will take to be granted a permanent position on the official abbreviations list. LOL
Good luck with the upcoming BFBs everyone.
Try to remember that we have the ability to set the pace and tone of the BFB.
Don't be reactionary. Take the high road.
Me: BS 44; Him: WH 47 M - 22 Years
D-day: 7/2013; D filed 7/2014; Divorced 7-27-16
...the WS affair starts off in a dreamland where everything is all Golly, Wow! and Meant To Be! and Soul Mates drop from the trees to frolic in the mist. -devotedman
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