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kg201 (original poster member #40173) posted at 1:24 AM on Wednesday, August 28th, 2013
I had my monthly cancer care-givers support group this evening. I told them my story about my wife's infidelity, and how her decision to stay with the OM has forced me to stop providing her the care that a husband would a sick spouse.
My group is not kicking me out despite my new status as a cancer non-care giver. 
It is a good group and I felt supported this evening.
Me: BH, 40
Her: Ms. Daisy
Together 18 years, married 15+
LTA 3.5 years, living together
Dday: 7/28/13
Ds17, DS12, DD12
Divorced! 2/24/2015
Apology. You keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it means.
MovingUpward ( member #14866) posted at 1:29 AM on Wednesday, August 28th, 2013
That's good to hear.
devistatedmom ( member #24961) posted at 1:35 AM on Wednesday, August 28th, 2013
That's so night kg. They know you are a caring individual, they want to support you through this, while you help others with the cancer care. They sound like a wonderful group. 
BS(me) 46, Two wonderful teens.
He is no longer my best friend. Repeat until it sticks.
WH says marriage is over: May 15, 2009.
EA#2 July 20, 2009. Legally sep: Aug 16, 2009. DIVORCED!!!! Signed Nov 23, final Dec 24, 2010, adultery listed.
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 1:42 AM on Wednesday, August 28th, 2013
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
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