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Reconciliation :
4 years ago today...

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 Deanna (original poster member #26854) posted at 5:21 PM on Monday, September 2nd, 2013

She gave him a peck on the cheek when she walked past him as if to say, "I want more than just flirting."

I have to tell you that I am not feeling anything today but greatful for the marriage we have today. That two months was a blip on the radar screen of our twenty four year marriage. Do I wish it didn't happen? Of course but I wouldn't go back to the way our marriage used to be for anything.

Not only can you survive but you can thrive!!!

DDay - 11/4/09
BS-49 DDay
fWS-46 DDay
EA/PA with childhood sweetheart/ kissed
R - 11/25/09
Life is not a dress rehearsal

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rachelc ( member #30314) posted at 5:35 PM on Monday, September 2nd, 2013

So happy for you!!!

But, how do you get to thrive?!

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AFrayedKnot ( member #36622) posted at 6:10 PM on Monday, September 2nd, 2013

BS 48fWS 44 (SurprisinglyOkay)DsD DSA whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better."Knowing is half the battle"

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LosferWords ( member #30369) posted at 6:17 PM on Monday, September 2nd, 2013

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 Deanna (original poster member #26854) posted at 8:34 PM on Monday, September 2nd, 2013

How do you get to thrive?

When you and your spouse are reconcilled (and you will know when that is) you will be able to move forward and become a better couple than you ever had been. It takes a lot of hard work but you will get there if your spouse is doing all the work and you can accept what happened. Accepting what happened was the hardest part for me.

DDay - 11/4/09
BS-49 DDay
fWS-46 DDay
EA/PA with childhood sweetheart/ kissed
R - 11/25/09
Life is not a dress rehearsal

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