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ajsmom (original poster member #17460) posted at 3:22 PM on Thursday, September 12th, 2013
Dreamt last night that my ex and I decided to remarry. For whatever reason, the dream flash forwarded to the wedding day. Not sure if we even dated, did counseling, etc.
He showed up late, drunk and told me at the altar that the only reason he was there was because his girlfriend kicked him out.
I turned on my heels and walked away.
Nocturnal bullet dodged.
AJ's MOM
Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.
"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
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Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
One AMAZING DS - 34
lieshurt ( member #14003) posted at 3:57 PM on Thursday, September 12th, 2013
No one changes unless they want to. Not if you beg them. Not if you shame them. Not if you use reason, emotion, or tough love. There is only one thing that makes someone change: their own realization that they need to.
She11ybeanz ( member #27457) posted at 4:15 PM on Thursday, September 12th, 2013
YIKES!!! Nightmare!!!
The only thing better would have been your stiletto sticking out of his forehead.... (too harsh?) 
"Sometimes your knight in shining armor ...is just a douchebag in tin foil!!"
ME - BW - 35
HIM - XWH - 39
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
New Beginning: Piper/8-3-12
FaithFool ( member #20150) posted at 4:24 PM on Thursday, September 12th, 2013
Hah! I've had a couple of those (without the actual wedding part). They're awesome. 
DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire
SBB ( member #35229) posted at 1:36 PM on Friday, September 13th, 2013
Nocturnal bullet dodged.
Love it!!
I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!
Chrysalis123 ( member #27148) posted at 2:27 PM on Friday, September 13th, 2013
Someone I once loved gave me/ a box full of darkness/ It took me years to understand/ That this, too, was a gift. - Mary Oliver
Just for the record darling, not all positive changes feel positive in the beginning -S C Lourie
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