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rachelc (original poster member #30314) posted at 7:17 PM on Thursday, September 12th, 2013
My sister's birthday is today. I have leaned on her mightily this year. She isn't the best gift giver and I don't care! She gives in so many other ways.
I sent her a Columbia fleece vest! My Mom started an email to all of us three girls and told what she is sending her. I added what I was sending her. My other sister says this and includes everyone:
I'm not sending her jack shit because she never sends me jack shit.
They have never gotten along too well. I can barely speak to my "jack shit" sister as she is so judgmental of me.
I want to reply but don't know what to say. Or, crickets?
lieshurt ( member #14003) posted at 7:31 PM on Thursday, September 12th, 2013
I wouldn't say anything. Let them hash it out.
No one changes unless they want to. Not if you beg them. Not if you shame them. Not if you use reason, emotion, or tough love. There is only one thing that makes someone change: their own realization that they need to.
MovingUpward ( member #14866) posted at 7:33 PM on Thursday, September 12th, 2013
don't feed the drama llama
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 7:34 PM on Thursday, September 12th, 2013
Chirp chirp, rachel. I wouldn't step into that for all the money in the world.
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
MissesJai ( member #24849) posted at 7:35 PM on Thursday, September 12th, 2013
crickets all day, sister. Save your sanity.
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rachelc (original poster member #30314) posted at 7:40 PM on Thursday, September 12th, 2013
yes, she wants a reaction from us, although birthday sister will not respond in any way, I know her.
But, what a crappy thing to do. I guess my limited contact with judgmental sister continues to be the right thing to do....
still2suspicious ( member #31722) posted at 8:05 PM on Thursday, September 12th, 2013
oh my!! There's soooo many things to say to her.
The best? Crickets! 
(they just hate that, don't they??)
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travels ( member #20334) posted at 8:10 PM on Thursday, September 12th, 2013
I'm limited contact with my judgmental/toxic sister. Best decision I ever made.
She likes to send texts that need no reply. Yet, she always expects an "ok" reply for everything. The rebel 
that I am, I don't send the "ok." I know it drives her crazy, but I don't care.
When one door closes, another door opens. It's the journey through the hallway that sucks.
"After a breakup, the loyal one stays single and deals with the damages until healed. The other one is already in another relationship."
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