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Crumbled324 (original poster member #33902) posted at 1:12 PM on Friday, September 13th, 2013
Going to a Marriage Fitness Bootcamp 2 day program tonight at the local church.
This is as close as we have come to MC so far, and DDay was late March of 2011.
She has been working on doing the right things since Dec of 11, had the joy of continued TT and broken NC via a secret cell phone in the 9 months prior.
My religious faith was obliterated on DDay, but I guess I'm seeking some kind of foundation for my daughter. We adopted her as an infant and at some point she will need to turn to something bigger to comfort her unanswered questions about who she is and where she came from.
Not really looking for my wife to have a "come to Jesus" moment.
Just need some positive mojo for the next couple days.
BH: 47
fWW: 46
Beautiful 9 year old daughter
Married 23 years, Together 29 - High School Sweethearts
Reconciling
Save yourself. I've taken off my cape, and the only thing the S on my chest stands for is SURVIVNG this.
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 4:59 PM on Friday, September 13th, 2013
I hope the bootcamp gives you what you need. My thoughts will be with you.
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
Skan ( member #35812) posted at 9:43 PM on Saturday, September 14th, 2013
Kick ass there! Much mojo!
Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
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