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LadyQ (original poster member #32847) posted at 1:42 AM on Wednesday, September 18th, 2013
My dd says she's afraid to go to her dad's. We talked some and now she's on the phone with her therapist. I won't say more in case x still lurks here, but please pray for my kids, I'm afraid something terrible is afoot.
Tune out the noise of what others tell you about who you are and work it out for yourself...
caregiver9000 ( member #28622) posted at 1:55 AM on Wednesday, September 18th, 2013
You got it. Please PM if you need to vent or share.
(((hugs))) and strength.
Me: fortysomething, independent, happy,
XH "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
two kids, teens. Old enough I am truly NO CONTACT w/ NPD zebraduck
S 5/2010
D 12/2012
peridot ( member #18334) posted at 2:52 AM on Wednesday, September 18th, 2013
I think...therefore, I'm single.
It is what it is.
hangingontohope7 ( member #20024) posted at 3:29 AM on Wednesday, September 18th, 2013
Sending you and DD lots of love and prayers.
((((LadyQ & DD))))
Me: BW
DDay #1 Tried R
DDAY #2 Divorcing
Burn everything love then burn the ashes.
Take2 ( member #23890) posted at 3:32 AM on Wednesday, September 18th, 2013
Hugs and prayers LadyQ and DD!
"We must be willing to get rid of the life we've planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us." Joseph Campbell...So, If fear was not a factor - what would you do?
Kajem ( member #36134) posted at 3:33 AM on Wednesday, September 18th, 2013
Sending strength and prayers.
Hugs for mama too.
K
I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - UnknownRelationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.
ChoosingHope ( member #33606) posted at 4:28 AM on Wednesday, September 18th, 2013
(((LadyQ and DD)))
You're in my thoughts and prayers tonight.
-Hope
dmari ( member #37215) posted at 4:29 AM on Wednesday, September 18th, 2013
Nature_Girl ( member #32554) posted at 4:50 AM on Wednesday, September 18th, 2013
We're here for both of you.
Me = BS
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU
CheaterMagnet ( member #33581) posted at 7:21 AM on Wednesday, September 18th, 2013
Hugs and prayers and strength to you both.
If Happy Ever After did exist, I would still be holding you like this.
All those fairly tales are full of shit.
One more fucking love song I'll be sick. ~ Maroon 5
LadyQ (original poster member #32847) posted at 3:38 AM on Sunday, September 22nd, 2013
Thank you all!
My DD is something of a drama queen. After discussing the situation with her therapist, she has come to the conclusion that "afraid" to go to her dad's was an over statement. She is okay. We are okay. Thank you so much for all your thoughts, prayers and well-wishes...
Tune out the noise of what others tell you about who you are and work it out for yourself...
Gemini71 ( member #40115) posted at 3:53 AM on Sunday, September 22nd, 2013
So glad it was a false alarm. I've been where you are, and no mother should ever have to worry about such things. Just one more thing to lay at the WS's doorstep. 
DSs 21, 16, 12
About my Ex:
IDK
IDC
IDGAF
Double Betrayal D-Day 7/26/2013
Divorced 11/18/2014
ChoosingHope ( member #33606) posted at 4:41 AM on Sunday, September 22nd, 2013
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