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sunsetslost (original poster member #39885) posted at 4:23 AM on Wednesday, September 25th, 2013
What is it about a hug? Some people fit better. Height, weight. Whatever. My STBX fit so well. My head. Hers. Never awkward. Never too short or too long. No getting hands tangled in hair. No awkward pats on the back. Wholesome, total fit. No awkward granny hugs where I'm afraid to break her. I haven't had a good hug in months. I will again.
Divorced 7/11/14. New Beginning on the Gulf of Mexico. It's real nice.
41andthankful ( member #38650) posted at 4:39 AM on Wednesday, September 25th, 2013
You will :) and it will be great to realize that someone else might fit just a little bit better. They might fill a little nook of space you never even realized was empty before. Me... I miss holding hands believe it or not. Sounds so silly but it used to bring such comfort. We even held hands under the covers at bed time.
Gemini71 ( member #40115) posted at 5:18 AM on Wednesday, September 25th, 2013
I had to stand on a step to comfortably hug STBXH. Maybe it was a sign? 
DSs 21, 16, 12
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Double Betrayal D-Day 7/26/2013
Divorced 11/18/2014
Feeling Consumed ( member #30592) posted at 6:15 AM on Wednesday, September 25th, 2013
I miss having someone to throw an arm and leg over in bed. I got one of those whole body pillows, but it's just not the same.
Spent half my life with an Ahole
D final!!! 11-11
"Obladi oblada life goes on...."
SBB ( member #35229) posted at 11:11 AM on Wednesday, September 25th, 2013
You will again.
I miss waking up as part of a spoon - didn't matter whether it was big or little spoon. I missed the smell of a man's skin too. Breathing him in.
I've had both again and it was simply lovely. So lovely I cried the first few times.
I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!
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