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Reconciliation :
BW Has the Whole Day to Herself

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 TimeToManUp (original poster member #37538) posted at 1:08 PM on Wednesday, September 25th, 2013

Today we start our youngest daughter in day school. Our oldest is in 3rd grade, and our middle daughter goes to day school 3 days a week, Mon, Weds, Fri. Our oldest now walks to and from school, so after she drops the other two off, she has the whole house to herself for 6 hours or so! I'm not too sure what my point is here, I'm just hoping that she can relax and enjoy the peace and quiet. She most certainly deserves the time to herself.

I know we're worth it.
WH/BH (Me-36) EA 11/11-12/11
BW/WW (tattoodchinadoll-34) EA early 2016, PA 8/16-9/16, Continued to 12/16 after discovery.
Together nearly 20 years, married for 14.
Three daughters, 12, 8 and 5.

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Undefinabl3 ( member #36883) posted at 1:45 PM on Wednesday, September 25th, 2013

Did you do anything for her to celebrate?

I hope that she has a good day too...

Me: 35 MH
Him: 41 MH
New online find 6/19/14 - shit
Phone Find 11/21/14 - I can't even right now.
1/26/15 - Started IC for me, DH won't go.
1/10/18 - Again?!? Online EA's

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sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 4:12 AM on Thursday, September 26th, 2013

It used to bug me, too, when my W worked a lot fewer hours than I did. Just sayin'....

fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

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topperoff22 ( member #40762) posted at 4:31 AM on Thursday, September 26th, 2013

I hope she can relax to and not be consumed. It is so hard sometimes..as a BW i know. Sounds like you recognize that she needs a break...that's great of you.

BS - Me 36
WS - Him 35 (almost 36)
Child: son, 6; just learned one on way
DDAY - July 24, 2013 (thousands spent on ex girlfriend)
DDAY2 -Aug. 3, 2013 (proof he slept with her)
R is slow going after TT for 1 month

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