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 SabbyKat (original poster new member #40800) posted at 5:52 PM on Thursday, September 26th, 2013

I found out last night SO cheated on me.Also girl is preg.I am still processing everything and deciding what to do.

[This message edited by SabbyKat at 4:55 PM, September 26th (Thursday)]

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Kimintexas ( new member #40781) posted at 6:02 PM on Thursday, September 26th, 2013

I am so sorry for you. What a betrayal on so many levels.

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pregnantandsad ( member #40141) posted at 6:03 PM on Thursday, September 26th, 2013

I am so sorry

((sabbykat))

M 7 years, together for 12
2 kids- DD5 & DD 1 1/2
D-Day 7/2013 - Divorced!

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StuckInHell ( new member #40741) posted at 6:17 PM on Thursday, September 26th, 2013

I'm so sorry for you. I am new here myself, but I have already found a lot of useful information and also some support here. Give yourself some time to process what you know. Think through everything before you act.

Hugs to you

BS(Me)42
SAWH 41
Married 19 Years
2 Kids 15, 12
Status: D Day 10/20/13

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StillStanding1 ( member #40144) posted at 8:20 PM on Thursday, September 26th, 2013

Hi SabbyKat,

So sorry you find yourself here. It's a very hard road forward, no matter which fork you travel.

There are a lot of good articles to read in the Healing Library tab (upper left) while you process.

Try to eat, stay hydrated, exercise or go for a walk, try to sleep (take an OTC sleep aid if needed). Take a deep breath. There are no short cuts in healing from this.

Sending big hugs. (((SabbyKat)))

Me: BS50s Him: WH50s
M 25 years - DD DS DS
LTA = 2+ yrs, Dday - 2/13, S for 1 year, now R

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Gajit ( member #40665) posted at 8:53 PM on Thursday, September 26th, 2013

I am so sorry you find yourself here. None of us wanted to be in this club.

There are a lot of caring and smart people here, so keep posting and venting on here. It really helps.

Also, something that helps me is writing in a journal, I have mine on my computer.

Hugs to you!

Lord, with Your help I will focus on each small step of the climb, instead of the mountain that stands before me.

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iwillNOT ( member #40605) posted at 10:35 PM on Thursday, September 26th, 2013

Oh SabbyKat, I am so sorry you are in this situation! Your world has been turned upside down and no doubt you are in absolute shock. It may take a while for this to sink in. Please be gentle with yourself, take care of yourself.

This site has wonderful people and advice. I am only 6 weeks in from my Dday and this site has been a lifesaver. I second the journal writing, also IC has been very valuable to me to sort out my feelings.

Keep posting, let us know how you are.

Me: BS, 46
Him: WH, 47
Together 24 years
4 amazing kids
Dday#1 2004, 3 years after EA/PA co-worker MOW
Dday#2 8-6-13, 13 months EA/9months PA with co-worker MOW - caught not confessed
Choosing myself daily and R almost every

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 SabbyKat (original poster new member #40800) posted at 10:56 PM on Thursday, September 26th, 2013

My biggest problem is this woman being preg.We do not know 100% it is his baby.But,since he did have unprotected sex with her there is a chance.

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