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Gr8Panoz (original poster new member #40746) posted at 5:31 AM on Saturday, September 28th, 2013
Really struggling tonight. Saw my kids for the first time last night. She's denied all visitation thus far. I know she got her summons for orders for temporary custody today.
I met her and the kids at a local restaraunt (she won't allow unsupervised visits). The kids came back to the house to see the cat. When they left they broke down crying. They didn't want to leave. It tore me up.
She probably felt something but I didn't see it. She has emotionally destroyed all of us. I was pissed at her that day which I prefer to the sad emptiness. Now I'm back to wanting to beg her to come back. I'm sad and terrified about the future. Can't hold back the tears.
Me: 31 BS
Her: 28 STBXW
Kids: 5 & 7
DDay 8-24-13
Divorce started: 9-5-13
Divorce Final: ?
newlysingle ( member #38735) posted at 6:21 AM on Saturday, September 28th, 2013
Do you have an attorney? Why are you being kept from your children? In my state, parents are pretty much given 50/50 custody unless one parent is proven to be unsafe.
BW - Me (40)
XWH -The Gnat
"Engaged" to OW, but the wedding appears to be indefinitely postponed.
M for 8 years, together for 10
1 DD (8), 1 DS (3)
Dday 3/13
Happily Divorced 9/20/13
Gr8Panoz (original poster new member #40746) posted at 3:40 PM on Saturday, September 28th, 2013
Yeah I have an attorney. She just got the motion for orders for temporary custody yesterday. I could be the bad guy demanding visitation or picking the kids up from school without notice but im taking the high road. Hoping the judge will approve.
I've documented every attempt to see the kids. Her mother is the one calling the shots, I'm sure of it. I'm having a hard time believing a lawyer is advising her on this matter.
Me: 31 BS
Her: 28 STBXW
Kids: 5 & 7
DDay 8-24-13
Divorce started: 9-5-13
Divorce Final: ?
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