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67 months = D

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 hexed (original poster member #19258) posted at 3:00 AM on Wednesday, October 2nd, 2013

5 yers and 7 months exactly after DDay, I am divorced.

Signed by the judge yesterday. Received in the mail today. New driver's license and updated bank account info today.

Ride on horse this afternoon where I may have made a new friend.

Glass of wine and bbq ribs with TG tonight

Nothing more to say about that.

But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler

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nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 3:04 AM on Wednesday, October 2nd, 2013

Holy mother of drawn out crap.

Glad it is finally official, hexed. About time the legal status caught up with your new beginning.

You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane

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 hexed (original poster member #19258) posted at 3:07 AM on Wednesday, October 2nd, 2013

LOL - NIK

Tell me about it. It was part of the D negotiotiations b/c his health care was so frigging good and private policies aren't. We traded health care for retirement money.

Yep...a looooooong time. I feel relieved its done!

But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler

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jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 3:15 AM on Wednesday, October 2nd, 2013

Congrats!!

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caregiver9000 ( member #28622) posted at 3:17 AM on Wednesday, October 2nd, 2013

Cheers to relief!

and to "done."

Me: fortysomething, independent, happy,
XH "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
two kids, teens. Old enough I am truly NO CONTACT w/ NPD zebraduck
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

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better4me ( member #30341) posted at 3:18 AM on Wednesday, October 2nd, 2013

Congrats Hexy!!

DDay 11/17/2010 BW:58
Happily remarried!

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wildbananas ( member #10552) posted at 5:05 AM on Wednesday, October 2nd, 2013

And I thought mine was bad at 3.5 years.

Congrats, hexie!

Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

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FaithFool ( member #20150) posted at 5:33 AM on Wednesday, October 2nd, 2013

My favourite part of this is the horse part.

DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

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click4it ( member #209) posted at 5:50 AM on Wednesday, October 2nd, 2013

Hexed, now you can officially close the door and keep walking.

Me: 45
Two boys: 20 and 17
Divorced 12-13-05
d-day 10-02-01

Laughter will cure life's ills. Have you had your laugh today?

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thebighurt ( member #34722) posted at 5:57 AM on Wednesday, October 2nd, 2013

Congrats Hexed! It must feel like a lifetime. Glad you're finally free. Enjoy.

Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?

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