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FieldsOfLavender (original poster member #39154) posted at 3:42 AM on Monday, October 7th, 2013
my 8 yo dd received a bracelet with a charm that said "sister" from knocked up whore. My dd seems very pleased with it. I'm sure that DD's friends will ask what "sister" means.
At this point, other than my close friends, few people know that I am separated from my stbx, much less that his whore is knocked up. Within our small community, the information will spread quickly that my STBX and his whore will be having a baby together.
I'm venting on a stream of conscious level.
I don't care for where I live, but I stay for DD's school. I don't want to create too much havoc and instability moving her to a new school at this point.
I think it would help me let go and start over if I can live in a new place after my grieving.
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 3:55 AM on Monday, October 7th, 2013
((((lavender)))) 
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
Bluebird26 ( member #36445) posted at 7:29 AM on Monday, October 7th, 2013
I am so sorry that must really hurt.
Try and put on a brave face for your daughter. She will one day be old enough to understand the deceit that has occurred for her to be a 'sister'. I know that doesn't help much now.
My children now have 3 'step-siblings'. I absolutely hate it. But I figure that the children in all this are the innocent ones. I am supportive of their relationship with their 'step-siblings' because it just makes life easier for them.
Me: BW
Best thing I gained in my divorce - my freedom.
Life's good.
woundedby2 ( member #18522) posted at 7:38 AM on Monday, October 7th, 2013
(((FoL)))
I'm sorry. That sucks so bad.
In 2010 I divorced the NPD assclown who cheated on me with my best friend.
Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson
SBB ( member #35229) posted at 10:27 AM on Monday, October 7th, 2013
Yuck. Just yuck.
((FoL)) I promise you this shit won't always hurt this bad. These days I am just glad that Whaura is not unkind to them.
The thought of those whores (him and her) being around my precious little girls and modelling this fucked up love addiction for them still kills me sometimes but I work really hard to shift my focus back to my girls. Nothing will stop me from continuing to model healthy behaviour for them.
They will be the joke of the town once it gets out. People do seem to love a scandal.
You keep holding your head high - everyone knows what this is and you might be surprised about the support you'll get from some unexpected places.
I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!
Holly-Isis ( member #13447) posted at 2:22 PM on Monday, October 7th, 2013
That's pretty sick if you think about what it implies.
"Being in love" first moved them to promise fidelity: this quieter love enables them to keep the promise. *CS Lewis*
macakipa ( member #33735) posted at 2:55 PM on Monday, October 7th, 2013
<<shaking my head>>
I just don't get, the warped thinking of cheaters, betrayers and liars.
(FOL)
M -25 years, T - 31 years, 4 children
Dday October 8, 2011 - Multiple PAs and ONs
Divorced 1-8-13
"When you give a lot of importance to someone in your life, you lose your importance in their life."
stronger08 ( member #16953) posted at 3:02 PM on Monday, October 7th, 2013
There is not much you can do about this. Thread carefully here. The court will encourage a sibling relationship between the kids. This act mat be in poor taste. But there is nothing illegal about it. I'm sure the bitch is trying to use your DD to get a rise out of you. Don't fall for it. Its very important to your head held high until the D is finalized.
You cant eat soup with chopsticks.
Take2 ( member #23890) posted at 3:09 PM on Monday, October 7th, 2013
Yuck...and a lot of other four letter words... but I suppose in the scheme of things, this small step toward a new reality is practice... you'll have to deal.
Now, the other part of me is saying cut the damn thing in half to demonstrate as you explain: Half sister, you are going to be a "half sister".
But, yeah - don't do that.
"We must be willing to get rid of the life we've planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us." Joseph Campbell...So, If fear was not a factor - what would you do?
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