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brokensunflower (original poster member #38674) posted at 12:42 AM on Wednesday, October 9th, 2013
well a yr ago my world would of ended.. the love of my life had an EA off of the site second life .. I finally got all of the slideshow crap outta of my head now .. with it being d day tomorrow .. my nerves have been shot .. I don't know what to do I want to some how take back tomorrow and make it ours again.. im 3 months pregnant with number 6 on the way .. hes been wonderful for months now I got him back she didn't win I did .. please send good vibes tomorrow prayers anything.. love you all let you know how tomorrow goes .. right now im a basket case
me 34
him 34
7 wonderful kids 14 yrs 10 yrs 7 yrs 6 yrs and 4 yrs 2yr ..and new baby
married 15years together for 12
my give a damn is busted
gma56 ( member #19595) posted at 6:49 AM on Wednesday, October 9th, 2013
(((Brokensunflower)))
The first of everything infidelity related is always very difficult. 
Turn the day around and make some new good memories.
Since you have younger kids, I would throw a family party. Just because it's Oct 9th, special meal, cake, leftover party favors, games, balloons,singing, EVERYTHING to celebrate. What are you celebrating ? You survived and you're gonna be OK.
Tell the kids from now on Oct 9th is a celebration of all of you being so blessed to have such a wonderful family . It's your day, cry in silence or celebrate your family's love.
You will never look at Oct 9th the same when every year, you celebrate your blessings. 
Big Hugs !!!!
Gma
BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.
RidingHealingRd ( member #33867) posted at 7:01 AM on Wednesday, October 9th, 2013
Wishing you strength to endure anything that today brings. Hopefully, it will pass with ease.
I too will be facing Dday (entering yr 4) in 20 days.
Wow, 6 children...good for you!
ME: 60 BS
HIM: 67 WH
Married: 35 years
D'Day: 10/29/10
in R 10 years and it's working but he is putting 200% into it (as he should) to make it right again.
The truth hurts, but I have never seen it cause the pain that lies do.
TarnishedSilver ( member #37166) posted at 1:04 PM on Wednesday, October 9th, 2013
Sending you strength to get through the day.
Keep busy, do something special for yourself.
You deserve to be happy. 
Me-BS
Him-WH
Together 38 years
2 kids in their 20’s
Dday #1- 2/17/2011
Dday #2- 1/08/2012
Dday #3- 11/19/2016
Healing myself is now my top priority.
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