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Gajit (original poster member #40665) posted at 3:41 AM on Friday, October 11th, 2013
My D-Day was 5 months ago. I haven't seen him since then. My whole d-day was via phone! WHAT A FUCKING COWARD!
I have an appt.with my L on the 14th. I sure hope I get everything I ask for in our D.
I think I am sick. I want to vomit. 
Lord, with Your help I will focus on each small step of the climb, instead of the mountain that stands before me.
newlysingle ( member #38735) posted at 3:55 AM on Friday, October 11th, 2013
It's a horrible process, but it will empower you. You are in charge of your future now. This asshat won't be making the decisions from this point on.
Good luck and I hope it goes your way too. Is he still in the A fog? If so, it might work to your advantage. My XH has his head so far up his ass with his OW that he gave me everything I wanted without a fight. He just wanted to get rid of me so he could have his "true lurve". He's all hers now, every bit if his lying, cheating ass. 
BW - Me (40)
XWH -The Gnat
"Engaged" to OW, but the wedding appears to be indefinitely postponed.
M for 8 years, together for 10
1 DD (8), 1 DS (3)
Dday 3/13
Happily Divorced 9/20/13
Gajit (original poster member #40665) posted at 4:19 PM on Friday, October 11th, 2013
NS-He is pouring himself into his work (at least 12 hours a day, 7 days a week). She is travelling with him but he still tells me he doesn't love her. They will be returning to 'her' town sometime next week.
He wants me to get our house ready to sell. I'm not going to do that. Even if we rent, it would cost more than keeping our house. I'm hoping to get the house in the D. Oh, and also 'his' truck because it is my main mode of transportation. My old car is a POS that is always in need of some repair.
He has NO expenses other than food. He has a company truck, paid hotel rooms, gas etc. Oh, and his whore. He makes great money and great perdiem every week.
I think I want to go take a class so I can be qualified for a good job. I have to raise my granddaughter who is just 14 right now.
Lord, with Your help I will focus on each small step of the climb, instead of the mountain that stands before me.
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 4:39 PM on Friday, October 11th, 2013
((((Gajit)))) Sending you strength, honey.
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
devistatedmom ( member #24961) posted at 1:03 AM on Saturday, October 12th, 2013
Keep your chin up Gajit. I hope your lawyer is a shark. :)
BS(me) 46, Two wonderful teens.
He is no longer my best friend. Repeat until it sticks.
WH says marriage is over: May 15, 2009.
EA#2 July 20, 2009. Legally sep: Aug 16, 2009. DIVORCED!!!! Signed Nov 23, final Dec 24, 2010, adultery listed.
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