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New Beginnings :
A NB for me!!!!

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 million pieces (original poster member #27539) posted at 2:26 AM on Monday, October 14th, 2013

I used to run and be pretty good at a local level. I pretty much gave racing up when my ex left, my kids were 4 and 7 and too young to be left alone and I certainly didn't have the money for a sitter for training. Well, now that they are older and I can sneak runs in when they are on playdates and at school, I've been able to run a bit more. Sooooo, this weekend I ran my first race (1/2 marathon) in almost 4 yrs! I didn't come close to my PR, but I ran under 2 hrs which was my goal. The Baltimore Half was so much fun! I'd never imagined I'd be cheered on by so many cigarette smoking old men and step on a dead rat and then gummy bears and have to scrape them from my shoes. Post race crabs and beer were an awesome touch too! I feel like I'm getting the last part of my life back on track

Just had to post this pic, can you eat a crab standing up in the rain?

Me - 52 D-Day 2/5/10, separated 3 wks later, Divorced 11/15/11!!!!

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cmego ( member #30346) posted at 2:28 AM on Monday, October 14th, 2013

Go million pieces!!! Great photo

me...BS, 46 years old.
Divorced

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nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 2:33 AM on Monday, October 14th, 2013

That's awesome, million!!!

You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane

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Williesmom ( member #22870) posted at 2:36 AM on Monday, October 14th, 2013

You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

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Random thoughts ( member #2959) posted at 2:43 AM on Monday, October 14th, 2013

You're glowing in the picture!!! Congrats on running again and working that time set goal!

Those three words are said too much and not enough.Chasing Cars-Snow Patrol.FWW

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fraeuken ( member #30742) posted at 2:43 AM on Monday, October 14th, 2013

You go girl!

Temporarily independent with the whole world at my feet.

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thyme2go ( member #12908) posted at 2:52 AM on Monday, October 14th, 2013

Bravo!

-t2g

BH - no longer 50
3 DD's - (32, 28 and 21)
Divorced on 8/6/09

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LeopoldB ( member #40606) posted at 4:28 AM on Monday, October 14th, 2013

Great pic.

You had me at "step on a dead rat".

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persevere ( member #31468) posted at 5:50 AM on Monday, October 14th, 2013

Love this!

DDay:2011
Status: D 2011
Remarried to a kind and wonderful man - 2017

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K.

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MyVoice ( member #35695) posted at 11:21 AM on Monday, October 14th, 2013

Awesome photo, I have a big smile on my face reading your post, thanks for sharing and congrats!!

Me:BW 46, Him:WH 50
two kids DD14 and DS17
Married 26 years
OW 28, crew member (he was the ships captain)
"People are formed by their actions, not their ideals" unknown

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SBB ( member #35229) posted at 1:59 PM on Monday, October 14th, 2013

LOVE THIS!! You are gorgeous!

I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

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nutmegkitty ( member #33882) posted at 2:21 PM on Monday, October 14th, 2013

How awesome is this!! Good for you!!!!

Me - happy!
2 DDs

Very happily divorced from an NPD since 2013.

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thebighurt ( member #34722) posted at 2:38 PM on Monday, October 14th, 2013

Congrats! That was a great time and not even a PR! I saw the photo before I read the post and thought "Baltimore! " because not many races have crab at the finish line.

BTW, you look marvelous!!

Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?

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Sad in AZ ( member #24239) posted at 1:02 AM on Tuesday, October 15th, 2013

Congratulations!

You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.

Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-63
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011

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