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HeartInADustpan (original poster member #38341) posted at 3:56 AM on Thursday, October 17th, 2013
So 3 years ago KB rear-ended someone in rush hour traffic. It, thankfully, being rush hour he was going >5mph. Basically a "bump". Anyway, he bumped his little car into big 4X4 truck. Big truck, barely a scratch; little car front end totaled.
So, DDay#2 comes around and he's coming clean...pretty much the end of TT. Turns out he was texting one of his APs when it happened. I remember just nodding and adding it to my mental list of how he's screwed up our M royally. Well, 3 year mark is coming around, so I reminded him he needed to contact the insurance company to make sure it's dropped off. Then it all came back. I triggered (and still am) hard.
Ugh...more in the cost of adultery. Deductible, rental, ticket and 3 years of higher insurance rates. Makes me want to puke. 
Just call me Heart. :)
Reconciling
"If you tell the truth, you don't have to remember anything" ~Mark Twain
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 4:00 AM on Thursday, October 17th, 2013
((((Heart)))) I'm sorry, honey.
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
dameia ( member #36072) posted at 12:57 PM on Thursday, October 17th, 2013
(((Heart))))
It really is amazing how an A sends its tentacles through the rest of your life. Nothing is unaffected.
I hope today is better for you.
Me: BS
D-Day: 7/7/12
Trust is like paper. Once it's crumpled it can never be perfect again.
AFrayedKnot ( member #36622) posted at 12:59 PM on Thursday, October 17th, 2013
BS 48fWS 44 (SurprisinglyOkay)DsD DSA whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better."Knowing is half the battle"
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 5:19 PM on Thursday, October 17th, 2013
Triggers suck, but I can't help thinking every trigger is a step toward healing....
(((Heart)))
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
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