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Divorce/Separation :
need some advice, please. re: visitation and x's girlfriend

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 LadyQ (original poster member #32847) posted at 5:56 AM on Saturday, October 19th, 2013

I don't know if any of you have followed my story, but the x is seeing one of the women he was dating while we were married. She's crazy. She has four kids, four different fathers, custody of only one of them. She kept the kids after her custodial visit this summer and enrolled them where my kids attend school. X doesn't live here, neither did she. A week after school starts, the children's custodial parent finds out where they are when the records request came to their previous school. Police were called, and all the students were un-enrolled and sent back to their respective homes.

I've since found out this woman has a criminal record of child abandonment/endangerment.

Now, my middle dd just told me that my youngest is spending the night with this loon and her daughter.

Long story short, I'm scared that this crazy person may endanger my child. But I'm more afraid that there's nothing I can do to protect my daughter.

Anyone have any experience??? Please help!

Tune out the noise of what others tell you about who you are and work it out for yourself...

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newlysingle ( member #38735) posted at 8:02 AM on Saturday, October 19th, 2013

Does it say anything in your parenting plan? There was a whole section in mine about crimes that would not permit an ex or their SO to have visitation. You may want to ask an attorney or even call CPS and make a formal complaint. I would think you would be justified considering her record.

BW - Me (40)
XWH -The Gnat
"Engaged" to OW, but the wedding appears to be indefinitely postponed.
M for 8 years, together for 10
1 DD (8), 1 DS (3)
Dday 3/13
Happily Divorced 9/20/13

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devistatedmom ( member #24961) posted at 3:01 PM on Saturday, October 19th, 2013

Definitely talk to your lawyer, the police, cps, anyone who can give you insight on how to legally keep your children away from her. Also, no way would I let my child go if I knew she was going to be sleeping over with this woman.

BS(me) 46, Two wonderful teens.
He is no longer my best friend. Repeat until it sticks.

WH says marriage is over: May 15, 2009.
EA#2 July 20, 2009. Legally sep: Aug 16, 2009. DIVORCED!!!! Signed Nov 23, final Dec 24, 2010, adultery listed.

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