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morethantrying (original poster member #40547) posted at 6:24 AM on Tuesday, October 22nd, 2013
Do you text a lot with WH?
he texts me during the day (my request) and it feels great...those little hearts and smiles...even without words...he was thinking of me....hold on to it...one day at a time, yes, compared to first days, weeks months...inching along
[This message edited by morethantrying at 12:25 AM, October 22nd (Tuesday)]
Affairs - hard on us both - but love will win.
Me: BS 57
Him: WS 64
Married 34 yrs.
dday TT from 12/2012-2/2013)...
TheAmazingWondertwin ( member #40769) posted at 11:24 AM on Tuesday, October 22nd, 2013
Texting has definitely become our connection. We are both at new jobs and having those texts come through durin the day really help. And mine has gotten really good at the long , thoughtful texts. Sometimes right when I need it.
It helps to know that he is thinking if me and takes the time to write meaningful things,or just "hey there" and a winky face.
Just call me Wonder
If you choose not to decide, you still have made a choice.
The axe "forgets"- the tree remembers.
Divorced and super good with tha
2 DS- 15 and 16
DDay 1- 07-24-2013
DDay 2- June something or other 2017
Marathonwaseasy ( member #40674) posted at 11:43 AM on Tuesday, October 22nd, 2013
texting is a big help right now for me too
although he texted OW a lot so it's a trigger sometimes
the usual infidelity/R two feelings at once rollercoaster
Me BS, 41
Him WS, 45
EA and PA (PA for 11 months)
DDay 13/9/13
3 children - 15,12,3
WS has bipolar, no excuse...
"We're not broken, just bent. We can learn to love again."
PrincessPeach06 ( member #39588) posted at 12:12 PM on Tuesday, October 22nd, 2013
We text a ton also but learned we have to be careful as it can hurt too!! One time I was joking around and he took it serious and ugh! We try and keep it light - no sarcasm. LOL
I love when I get messages saying "love you and thinking of you". :)
Me (BS): 36
Him aka narcissistic psychopath (WS): 36
Married 17 years 6 kids ages 16-7
DDay #1 (EA) July '08
DDay #2 (EA/ONS- different OW) May 15, 2013
Finally this is R 8/14/13
Filed for divorce 5/8/15
morethantrying (original poster member #40547) posted at 1:24 PM on Tuesday, October 22nd, 2013
Yes! Always two feelings---and sometimes more!
Affairs - hard on us both - but love will win.
Me: BS 57
Him: WS 64
Married 34 yrs.
dday TT from 12/2012-2/2013)...
mellie99 ( member #39712) posted at 3:05 PM on Tuesday, October 22nd, 2013
Texting has been good for us as well; for some reason phone conversations always start out poorly and then turn into marathon sessions. As I'm still working on controlling my emotions in certain situations it's good for me to not always have those audio cues.
Me: BW (32)
Him: WS (31)-Multiple ONS
Married: 1/3/05 Together since 5/2002
D-Day #1-3/2009 (4 years after the fact)
D-Day #2 3/2013(he confessed to 3 more ONS, 1 the month I found out I was pregnant)
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