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Sammy2013 (original poster member #41040) posted at 3:00 PM on Tuesday, October 22nd, 2013
Is there someplace a BS can put a question to the WS? It nothing mean, just someone to help me put it into perspective? I'll put it here in case he admins can just move it! Lol
What is the reason for TT? My WS started with "it's just an EA". Of course more is coming out. They kissed. Well, they kissed in her hotel room, well they kissed in her bed in her hotel room. He asked if he should look at apartments this morning. I told him if he could look me in eye and tell me nothing more will come out, he just sighed. Now he is looking at apartments. Why not just get it all out there? He claims "because there will always be more for you, you will always think something more happened." Well, yeah, because more keeps coming out. I don't get this. Why prolong my pain and his feelings of guilt. Because I am assuming its hard for him to carry that around day after day. He told me about the EA out of supposed guilt. Said he thought that would be more devastating to me than a PA. I'm just don't get it?
WH -42;BS (me) 43
Married 17 years, 3 kiddos
First DDay 9/13. TT and 3 more DDays in the 6 months to follow. Reconciled in year 4 of the 2-5 year range.
bookjunkie ( member #39033) posted at 3:04 PM on Tuesday, October 22nd, 2013
Yes, it's under "I can Relate".
WW 43 (me)
BH 45
Married 24 yrs
3 kids
DDay 2/10/13 Confessed
Reconciling
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