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Reconciliation :
6th year anniversary

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 Simple (original poster member #18814) posted at 11:36 PM on Tuesday, October 22nd, 2013

We just had our 13th year wedding anniversary (we've been together 17 years). I found myself silently count that it's our 6th year instead because I feel like that the "real" marriage started when we decided to R. In a way I'm glad I think it's our "6th year wedding anniversary" instead of our "6th year since A was revealed" which I used to count it as. Love, life, and forgiveness is definitely possible after A. I actually feel my marriage is even better than ever. That all that pain and trouble to R was worth it.

Just want to share. Hugs to all of you working on R.

[This message edited by Simple at 5:37 PM, October 22nd (Tuesday)]

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jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 11:43 PM on Tuesday, October 22nd, 2013

(((Simple)))

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AFrayedKnot ( member #36622) posted at 11:50 PM on Tuesday, October 22nd, 2013

I love your perspective. Thank you for the hope.

BS 48fWS 44 (SurprisinglyOkay)DsD DSA whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better."Knowing is half the battle"

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Jrazz ( member #31349) posted at 11:52 PM on Tuesday, October 22nd, 2013

Thanks Simple!

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