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Helen of Troy (original poster member #26419) posted at 4:29 PM on Wednesday, October 23rd, 2013
Why does fow/nw stalk my social network pages? I do not care about hers or his, their friends, etc. You may say block her, yes I did that . If blocked, you can still view certain things without logging in.
2nd thing- DD12 mentioned to me that fow/nw/sm bought her dad a gift that read "your my everything". I tried to not show any emotion and nonchalantly said "Oh that's nice." Inside thinking man she is one dumb bitch. It's you're not your! 
I will now go back to my manor.
twinkie ( member #29203) posted at 4:33 PM on Wednesday, October 23rd, 2013
I do not understand why they stalk our social networks. I used to think that it was so they could be more like us but I really don't know.
Heal&Deal ( member #30910) posted at 4:43 AM on Thursday, October 24th, 2013
Why do they stalk? Fear. Insecurity. Knowledge of how easily an A can happen. Maybe it is a leftover habit as well. It would seem that the spouse would be a constant thought on the mind of the AP, comparing, analyzing the M, etc. Also, What else does an AP do with their time while the WS is with the family?
It is such a screwed up way to live. Truly, it is hard to believe that anyone would allow themselves to be the "other" person, but hey, turns out there are a lot of people who do choose this.
Snapdragon ( member #4286) posted at 2:23 PM on Thursday, October 24th, 2013
How do you know she stalks your pages?
Perhaps is it a matter of "know thine enemy". Because you ARE the enemy, you know. 
Divorced - recovered and hoping to help.
"We're not broken, just bent, and we can learn to love again" ~Pink
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