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 summerain (original poster member #37439) posted at 1:22 PM on Saturday, October 26th, 2013

Now that I have your attention (honestly I had no idea how else to put it)

Do you have lame bands/ songs that you listen too... that's sort of embaressing?

mine is lifehouse tehehe

sad or angry or MUSHY AS HELL

OW1 inadvertently let me know WH loves English breakfast tea. Never ever saw him drink it. And I never will.

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yousaid4ever ( member #32626) posted at 1:40 PM on Saturday, October 26th, 2013

P!nk She speaks to my soul on so many different levels

[This message edited by yousaid4ever at 7:43 AM, October 26th (Saturday)]

I took your words and I believed
In everything you said to me
Cause you said forever
And ever, who knew?......Pink

BS(me) 59...STBXSAWH 59
Married 40 yrs/4 grown children, 5 grandchildren
DD's-1st on 10/75, now too many too count.

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Flourgirl ( member #40937) posted at 10:06 PM on Saturday, October 26th, 2013

I have a whole playlist on my iPhone labeled broken. Look what you've done. By Jet pretty much sums things up for me.

BS me 39
WH him 40
Dd 7/1/13. TT 7/22/13
SAHM with 4 wonderful kids

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TheAmazingWondertwin ( member #40769) posted at 11:20 PM on Saturday, October 26th, 2013

Fun.

Didn't like them before but for some reason post d day, their songs always either pump me up or drag me to tears.

On good days I crank up the Disney stuff and pretend I'm Belle.

Just call me Wonder

If you choose not to decide, you still have made a choice.

The axe "forgets"- the tree remembers.

Divorced and super good with tha
2 DS- 15 and 16
DDay 1- 07-24-2013
DDay 2- June something or other 2017

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blakesteele ( member #38044) posted at 12:39 AM on Sunday, October 27th, 2013

Ylvis...that dang fox song on youtube.

FUN...really like their Some Nights song...was an anthem of sorts for me as I hit the gym during some very dark times post-DD.

ME: 42 BH, I don't PM female members
SHE: 38 EA
Married: 15 years
Together: 17 years
D/Day 9-10-12
NC: 10-25-12
NC: Broken early November 2012, OM not respond
2 girls; 7 and 10
Fear is payments on debts you have not yet incurred.

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Kelany ( member #34755) posted at 2:33 AM on Sunday, October 27th, 2013

Oh hell yes!!!!

For a long time my ringtone was Payphone by Maroon 5. I mean...listen to the words, lol.

P!nk is a favorite as is Maroon 5, One Republic, Mumford and Sons, Fun. and so many more.

Eta I got to see Maroon 5 last April and Fun. in July. Was awesome. My husband came with me too.

[This message edited by SamanthaBaker at 8:35 PM, October 26th (Saturday)]

BS - Me
SA/FWH Him
DDay 1 - Jul 11
DDay 2 - Jul 12
R Dec 12

Former 80s Icon wishful thinking

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AML04 ( member #39682) posted at 8:00 PM on Sunday, October 27th, 2013

Flourgirl-I just looked up that Jet song. I've heard it before but never really listened to it. Ugh, so right on.

Me-BS Him-WH DS 5/12
Met 2000, Married 2004
DDay 5/26/13, TT through 8/13
2.5 yr EA w/co-worker, PA 12/12 to 4/13
Hopeful for R

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karmahappens ( member #35846) posted at 9:58 PM on Sunday, October 27th, 2013

Hey Wondertwin...

On good days I crank up the Disney stuff and pretend I'm Belle.

Nice to meet you, I am the Little Mermaid.

"Up where they walk...up where they run..."

“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom”
Anaïs Nin
Me: 45
Him: 47
Dday 8/2007
We have R'd

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AML04 ( member #39682) posted at 1:42 AM on Monday, October 28th, 2013

"Up where they stay all day in the suuuuunnnnn"

Love me some Disney songs.

Me-BS Him-WH DS 5/12
Met 2000, Married 2004
DDay 5/26/13, TT through 8/13
2.5 yr EA w/co-worker, PA 12/12 to 4/13
Hopeful for R

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BeyondBreaking ( member #38020) posted at 2:03 AM on Monday, October 28th, 2013

I hate to admit it, but I listen to Feist.

Also, when I am in a bad mood, call me maybe being blasted usually helps me feel more upbeat and happy, even if only for a minute.

I have been cheated on by 3 different men, and I have more DDays than anyone ever should. I am here, just trying to pickup the pieces.

"What did you expect? I am a scorpion."

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TheAmazingWondertwin ( member #40769) posted at 11:03 AM on Monday, October 28th, 2013

Hi little mermaid! :) it helps doesn't it?!?

Just call me Wonder

If you choose not to decide, you still have made a choice.

The axe "forgets"- the tree remembers.

Divorced and super good with tha
2 DS- 15 and 16
DDay 1- 07-24-2013
DDay 2- June something or other 2017

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TheAmazingWondertwin ( member #40769) posted at 11:35 AM on Monday, October 28th, 2013

This hit me in the mall the other day....

Bob Dylan "to make you feel my love."

Dylan was my late fathers favorite artist and this song was one if his faves. The contrast between thinking my H was so much like my father, then the A, then hearing this song- had me sobbing in the hoodies at zumies.

Such a beautiful song that I used to enjoy so much.

Just call me Wonder

If you choose not to decide, you still have made a choice.

The axe "forgets"- the tree remembers.

Divorced and super good with tha
2 DS- 15 and 16
DDay 1- 07-24-2013
DDay 2- June something or other 2017

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AML04 ( member #39682) posted at 2:07 AM on Tuesday, October 29th, 2013

I love that song Wondertwin. Adele's version is beautiful too.

Know what's been making me cry lately? The Chevy commercial with Will Hoge's "Strong". I really thought my H was like that. Ugh.

Me-BS Him-WH DS 5/12
Met 2000, Married 2004
DDay 5/26/13, TT through 8/13
2.5 yr EA w/co-worker, PA 12/12 to 4/13
Hopeful for R

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karmahappens ( member #35846) posted at 2:26 AM on Tuesday, October 29th, 2013

OMG

The Chevy commercial with Will Hoge's "Strong".

I just saw this....gave me goosebumps.

“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom”
Anaïs Nin
Me: 45
Him: 47
Dday 8/2007
We have R'd

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 summerain (original poster member #37439) posted at 9:07 AM on Wednesday, October 30th, 2013

these are great!

OW1 inadvertently let me know WH loves English breakfast tea. Never ever saw him drink it. And I never will.

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No12turn2 ( member #40996) posted at 3:35 PM on Wednesday, October 30th, 2013

I don't think they are lame, but I'm a metal head so it doesn't match my taste at all. I like Muse and Pink. Muse has really helped me through this ordeal. They do a pretty decent remake of "Feeling Good" that calms me down. Music does feel like porn sometimes.

[This message edited by No12turn2 at 9:37 AM, October 30th (Wednesday)]

Me/BS 35
WW 32
M 12 yrs 2 Girls 10 & 7
Phone/Cyber Affairs (3 D-Days)
Status: DIVORCED 4/24/2014

No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.

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