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selkiescot (original poster member #23777) posted at 12:30 PM on Tuesday, October 29th, 2013
Wh and I are trying to reconcile......again. He has asked me to help with vocals in the "new" band without the orange haired Rhino. So we were practicing the other night with the guitarist and I was singing White Rabbit. WHite Rabbit is THE RHINOS" song. . She thinks she is Grace Slick. And he said....well your not as good as the Rhino. I took my stuff and walked away. Sat in my room crying my eyes out. Then I heard him talking to someone on the phone and it was the Rhino. Since there is no band she NO reason to keep calling him ......right? Well the calls back and forth continue. They are good friends. BULLS SHIT! I wish this house would just sell. We are out of reconciliation for sure!
[This message edited by selkiescot at 6:32 AM, October 29th (Tuesday)]
The truth shall set you free or reveal the name of the OW!
ME 57
WH 64
DDAYs TOO MANY
daughter 27
You give me gifts! I don't want your gifts I want the truth. That's the greatest gift.
TrustGone ( member #36654) posted at 1:10 PM on Tuesday, October 29th, 2013
I am sorry to hear he has disrespected you yet again. You obviously can't change him after all this time, so you just need to let him go. Why do you continue to try and reconcile with a cheater that won't go NC with this OW? You are wasting your life with him. If I ever find out my WH#2 has contacted the OW again, we are done. I hope you get to where you feel the same. (((HUGS)))
XWH#2-No longer my monkey Divorced 8/15, Now married to a wonderful man.
"A person is either an asset or a lesson"
"Changing who you are with does not change who you are"
simplydevastated ( member #25001) posted at 1:21 PM on Tuesday, October 29th, 2013
Oh honey, I'm so sorry that happened. I can only imagine how painful that is. If you ever need to talk I'm here for you. 
Sending (((HUGS))) and strength
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Me - BS, 40 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS11, DD8
Getting my ducks in a row for divorce... finally (4+ D-Days too many - listed in profile.)
MovingUpward ( member #14866) posted at 1:45 PM on Tuesday, October 29th, 2013
selkiescot (original poster member #23777) posted at 7:33 PM on Tuesday, October 29th, 2013
thank you all once again. The RHino is not the OW. Well she might be a OW but not THE OW. She is a former fiance who came back into WH's life out of the blue because she was looking for a bass player for her band. Then they decided to start their own band. it has been almost a year and no band. The OW is another former flame who he dated back when he was on the road. She is the bunny boilers of all bunny boilers. The RHino is just an old bag desperate to recapture her youth by chasing any an all men who feed her tremendous ego. Kind of matches her tremendous butt. Anyway I am much better today. Back to kick ass and take no prisoners Selkie. Can't wait till this cursed house sells. Then I will finally be free.
The truth shall set you free or reveal the name of the OW!
ME 57
WH 64
DDAYs TOO MANY
daughter 27
You give me gifts! I don't want your gifts I want the truth. That's the greatest gift.
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