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lisaloo (original poster member #20082) posted at 3:59 AM on Thursday, November 28th, 2013
I usually post in general...but WH has left the house, essentially abandoned me and DD, doesn't speak to me, he's seen a lawyer, and, seriously, it's over, so I may as well ease my bruised ego on in here and say hi...so Hi!!
Sooooooo...WH moved out on the 18th. He SAID that he is staying at his boss's house, which didn't really make a lot of sense, seeing as how I thought his boss had moved to another state...but whatever, I didn't give it too much thought, since it doesn't really matter where WH is, he's still an asshat.
Because WH's an asshat, and I cant afford to stay in the amazingly beautiful house I effing designed for us to grow old and die in, I've been hunting for houses online in the same area that we live in (so that DD doesn't have to change schools). I managed to find one not too far from where our current house is. It wasn't the prettiest house, but it was in my price range (i.e. it was cheap) so I decided to do a drive by...imagine my surprise when I drove up to the house and found WH's car in the freaking driveway!!!!
Apparently WH is living in his boss's OLD bachelor pad that has yet to sell...I'm so tempted to contact a realtor so I can get a tour of his empty abode...furnished with (I assume) nothing other than the bed he stole from the guest bedroom.
Seriously...What an asshat.
Me: 33 STBXH: 34 DD: 8
D Day (EA): 6-19-08
D Day #2 (SA): 7-5-10
D Day #3 (EA): 11-8-13
WH moved out: 11-18-13
Moved BACK IN (because the lawyer told him to): 11/29/13.
Filed for Divorce: 12-9-13
In house separation...fun, fun, fun.
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 4:24 AM on Thursday, November 28th, 2013
What the heck?!?
Welcome to D/S, lisaloo. This is a fabulous and fierce group. We've got your back. 
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
PurpleRose ( member #33129) posted at 4:58 AM on Thursday, November 28th, 2013
Well that is a coincidence. :/
I'm sorry you are here, but stick around because we are a very supportive bunch.
Soooo.. Did you call the realtor yet? 
divorced the Dooosh 8/13
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Dance like nobody is watching,
Text and email like it will be used in court someday...
Gemini71 ( member #40115) posted at 5:08 AM on Thursday, November 28th, 2013
Look on the bright side, if you sell your house and buy the bachelor pad, WH won't have a free place to live. 
edit to correct my typos, they drive me nuts.
[This message edited by Gemini71 at 11:09 PM, November 27th (Wednesday)]
DSs 21, 16, 12
About my Ex:
IDK
IDC
IDGAF
Double Betrayal D-Day 7/26/2013
Divorced 11/18/2014
Vulcanized ( member #33523) posted at 7:45 PM on Thursday, November 28th, 2013
Me: fBW/MH 40s
3.26.13: Liberation day: D'd the whiny turd after being saddled with a serial cheating, NPD, jitbag 10 years too long
Now:-----> Everything is as it should be
Lostandpregnant ( member #41433) posted at 8:30 PM on Thursday, November 28th, 2013
He left me 18 weeks pregnant with twins for another.I am a Licensed Private Investigator..it even happens to us.
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