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marionwendy (original poster member #41303) posted at 7:05 PM on Saturday, November 30th, 2013
I found out nearly 3 months ago that my Husband had been first texting with a woman, that then led to a PA that happened only once! He has done all the right things, NC,MC, Remorseful, supportive to me.... But still doesn't know why? Can this be true? Is there really any real answer? We have been together 21 years and have had our ups and downs in our marriage but never this! He is talking a lot more and telling me the answer to the questions I ask but says he really doesn't know why it happened. He tells me if he wasn't as drunk as he was it never would of happened????? Not buying it! How do I really find out the WHY? so this never happens again. PLEASE HELP!
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WS-53
Married-25
Together-25
Children-2
Life is not measured by the breaths we take
but by the moments that take our breath away.
authenticnow ( member #16024) posted at 7:44 PM on Saturday, November 30th, 2013
Please read the Wayward Forum description:A forum for all Former WS's who have ended or trying to end their affairs and are striving to reconcile. BS's are not to post on threads unless the WS is seeking and asks for BS responses. BS's are not to start threads asking questions of the WS's.
You can ask WSs questions in the I Can Relate Forum, BS Questions for Waywards thread.
Thank you.
DS, you are forever in my heart. Thank you for sharing your beautiful spirit with me. I will always try to live by the example you have set. I love you and miss you every day and am sorry you had to go so soon, it just doesn't seem fair.
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