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DepressedDaddy (original poster member #41521) posted at 4:04 PM on Friday, December 6th, 2013
Is there a website that gives referral information on MC/IC who specializes in infidelity?
Since D I have become DDaddy 2.0 - or better known as DevotedDaddy
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ascian ( member #40304) posted at 4:19 PM on Friday, December 6th, 2013
Back in August when I was looking for MCs I never found one. Unfortunately, as common as relationship problems are, we are as a culture completely unwilling to discuss that fact publicly.
The best I found was to do searches for Marriage Counselor <My Town>. My wife and I put together a spreadsheet with their names, distance from our house (we live in the country, so distance is an issue), their hours, and any thoughts we had, then narrowed it down to our top three. Even if you're only going by yourself, that method should work.
Me - BH 41
Her - FWW 38
D-Day: 8/13
Reconciled
Mack9512 ( member #38619) posted at 4:22 PM on Friday, December 6th, 2013
I found my IC here (I hope I'm not crossing any guidelines here):
http://therapists.psychologytoday.com/rms/prof_search.php
Just plug in your state and what you are looking for and they will compile a list for you.
Hope it helps,
Mack
"If you're brave enough to say goodbye, life will reward you with a new hello." - Paulo Coehlo
LosferWords ( member #30369) posted at 4:45 PM on Friday, December 6th, 2013
DepressedDaddy - SI is not a referral site but we encourage you to check with your local mental health facility for a list of local counselors/therapists. 
bionicgal ( member #39803) posted at 7:36 PM on Friday, December 6th, 2013
Ok, I hear about these mythical "experts in infidelity" but unless you live in a major, urban area, I wouldn't hold my breath.
I would find someone certified in Marriage and Family Counseling, though. I think infidelity is the bread and butter for MCs anyway.
me - BS (45) - DDay - June 2013
A was 2+ months, EA/PA
In MC & Reconciling
"Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point to move forward." -- C.S. Lewis.
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