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nowiknow23 (original poster member #33226) posted at 2:06 AM on Tuesday, December 24th, 2013
I know the next couple of days are difficult for many (me included). If I could make things easier for everyone, I would.
Failing that, I'm sending a hug out to anyone who needs or wants one. Add 'em if you've got extra. Otherwise, take whatever you need. 
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
Kap12 ( member #41759) posted at 2:22 AM on Tuesday, December 24th, 2013
Thanks I needed this right about now. Been a rough couple days, weeks and months.
KAP12
nowiknow23 (original poster member #33226) posted at 2:30 AM on Tuesday, December 24th, 2013
Hang in there, honey. ((((kap12))))
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
caregiver9000 ( member #28622) posted at 2:35 AM on Tuesday, December 24th, 2013
Hugs to all who need them.
Me: fortysomething, independent, happy,
XH "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
two kids, teens. Old enough I am truly NO CONTACT w/ NPD zebraduck
S 5/2010
D 12/2012
Gajit ( member #40665) posted at 2:43 AM on Tuesday, December 24th, 2013
I certainly need a REAL hug!
Thank you to all of the people on SI who continue to offer support when we need it!
I hope you have a very Merry Christmas!
I hope you have a day full of love and joy!
Lord, with Your help I will focus on each small step of the climb, instead of the mountain that stands before me.
NotFixable ( member #41608) posted at 2:58 AM on Tuesday, December 24th, 2013
Thanks for the hug and hugs back to anyone that wants one! I really think SI has saved my life over the last couple of weeks. I'm so glad I found you guys.
Me-BS
Him-WH
Married 13 years
DD #1 03/12
DD #2 11/20/13
DD #3 came after the others although it was with whore #1. Took a while to admit to her because she's so fat and disgusting.
So many additional AP came out later that I lost count.
nowiknow23 (original poster member #33226) posted at 3:04 AM on Tuesday, December 24th, 2013
We're glad you found us too, NotFixable, although I wish you didn't have a reason to be here. ((((hugs))))
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
Jrazz ( member #31349) posted at 3:05 AM on Tuesday, December 24th, 2013
Big hugs to the SI fam!!!
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom
goodbye_virginia ( member #16321) posted at 4:00 AM on Tuesday, December 24th, 2013
I could use one of these too. I also have plenty to give away.
I hope everyone has as good of a Christmas as possible.
[This message edited by goodbye_virginia at 10:01 PM, December 23rd (Monday)]
Me- BW 38
Him - WH 46 alcoholic
We are attempting R but I still doubt it all sometimes
Divorced as of 09/2018
LosferWords ( member #30369) posted at 4:08 AM on Tuesday, December 24th, 2013
caregiver9000 ( member #28622) posted at 7:05 AM on Wednesday, December 25th, 2013
Bumping for Christmas...
Me: fortysomething, independent, happy,
XH "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
two kids, teens. Old enough I am truly NO CONTACT w/ NPD zebraduck
S 5/2010
D 12/2012
jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 7:23 AM on Wednesday, December 25th, 2013
SI hugs....koala style. There is always someone to lean on who has your back.
Jen ( member #26584) posted at 7:29 AM on Wednesday, December 25th, 2013
My hope for you all this Christmas and the coming new year .....
[This message edited by booger bear at 1:30 AM, December 25th (Wednesday)]
Me former Booger Bear ...
https://youtu.be/1TcLw3TOIN8
Hand Me Down MatchBox 20
https://youtu.be/iFdOAyyn76M
Love Falls by HellYeah
caregiver9000 ( member #28622) posted at 7:36 AM on Wednesday, December 25th, 2013
I KNEW you would have a perfect hug.
Merry Christmas, bb.
Me: fortysomething, independent, happy,
XH "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
two kids, teens. Old enough I am truly NO CONTACT w/ NPD zebraduck
S 5/2010
D 12/2012
persevere ( member #31468) posted at 7:37 AM on Wednesday, December 25th, 2013
I really needed this tonight - thank you and Merry Christmas.
DDay:2011
Status: D 2011
Remarried to a kind and wonderful man - 2017
Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron
It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K.
hangingonin ( member #29530) posted at 7:40 AM on Wednesday, December 25th, 2013
Thanks I need a hug right now.
Hugs to everyone here
Sad in AZ ( member #24239) posted at 7:46 AM on Wednesday, December 25th, 2013
OK; it's sort of a hug along with a bit on the ear to say, "Everything will be OK; get some rest, then kick some ass."
You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.
Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-63
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011
Jen ( member #26584) posted at 8:24 AM on Wednesday, December 25th, 2013
Welcome everyone .... Merry Christmas ....
Me former Booger Bear ...
https://youtu.be/1TcLw3TOIN8
Hand Me Down MatchBox 20
https://youtu.be/iFdOAyyn76M
Love Falls by HellYeah
sullymeishadomi ( member #16305) posted at 1:43 PM on Wednesday, December 25th, 2013
I dont have the ability to post cute pics or gifs...
Sending H U G E ((((hugs))))
soveryweary ( member #32265) posted at 2:08 PM on Wednesday, December 25th, 2013
Divorced 1/3/14 after 31 years of marriage.
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