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JerseyCowgirl (original poster member #41441) posted at 9:14 PM on Tuesday, December 24th, 2013
That's right! Since I literally have no one to spend the holidays with, not one person left to even exchange a gift with. I realized the only thing that never let me down was my little red jeep. She is 10 years old now and in need of some repairs. So I had a new battery put in and new clutch. Tomorrow I'll spend Xmas with the thing that has been there for me...So no matter what the weather the top's going down and I plan on finding the biggest mud hole around and Jeepie & I are going to have some fun. To be nice I'll treat her to a full cleaning detail for a New Years present. Hey I have to do something or this infidelity crap will win!
Me: Divorced 2012
I know that when I truly love & honor myself I am at my best & most complete; and I will never settle for anything less from myself or from anyone else ever again!
NoReGrets ( member #37902) posted at 9:33 PM on Tuesday, December 24th, 2013
Jeeps are great roadtrip cars. How about rescuing a pup to take on roadtrips with you?
I didn't have my dog a year ago, and I still don't know how I managed to get through that ordeal. This time is rough, but I have the experience and knowledge to know that I have and can survive it. I also have the everlasting companion of my sunshine furfriend.
Congrats to your jeep. They're awesome vehicles! (=
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 9:34 PM on Tuesday, December 24th, 2013
You mean it's a stick shift??? That's pretty male.... Ah, I see it's red, a proper girl's color. Whew! 
(signed) sisoon (male, really wanting a red car)
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
karmahappens ( member #35846) posted at 9:54 PM on Tuesday, December 24th, 2013
Wow
You are awful good to that Jeep, considering it caused the affair and all... 
Merry Christmas!
“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom”
Anaïs Nin
Me: 45
Him: 47
Dday 8/2007
We have R'd
Rebreather ( member #30817) posted at 9:57 PM on Tuesday, December 24th, 2013
Nice! We just painted my jeep a deep dark red. I named him Jean-Claude. He is a little older than yours, a 1947. Lol
Merry Christmas!
Me BS
Him WH
2 ddays in '07
Rec'd.
"The cure for the pain, is the pain." -Rumi
thebighurt ( member #34722) posted at 10:13 PM on Tuesday, December 24th, 2013
Enjoy your Christmas ride, Jersey. We have to honor those things that we can rely on. (Hence, I am D!!)
Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?
IrishLass518 ( member #34373) posted at 12:12 AM on Wednesday, December 25th, 2013
Love it. Have a blast and spend your holiday any way that makes happy.
Me: 46 BS Divorced
Him: 45 Married OW
DDay: 07/04/2008
Divorced: 06/15/2011
5 kids: IrishLass 27,IrishLad 25, IrishLass 23, IrishLad 21 and IrishLad 12
"You can't run from trouble..there ain't no place that far"
Skan ( member #35812) posted at 12:14 AM on Wednesday, December 25th, 2013
Find a BIG puddle and give it a good splash for me! Sounds like a lot more fun than laying flooring in the dining room. That would be mou!
Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
Betrayeddaddio ( member #30198) posted at 4:13 AM on Wednesday, December 25th, 2013
Can you see me JC, I'm doing the Jeep wave from my Blue Jeep!!! Merry Christmas!
BH-42 WW-40 DD-5 DD-9 DD-11
D-Day 09/27/2010 Wayward wife had a 10 month A with married DB co-worker Separated Oct. 2013
PinkJeepLady ( member #37575) posted at 4:16 AM on Wednesday, December 25th, 2013
You know how I feel about that idea......fabulous!!!!! I too have "feelings" for my pink Jeep, I hear you!
Have a wonderful ride tomorrow and Merry Christmas!
Me: BW Him: FWH
DDay June 1st 2012
cheated with prostitutes overseas
Reconciled - thought so, but now divorcing
wanttofeelwhole ( member #31830) posted at 11:14 AM on Wednesday, December 25th, 2013
Love this post. I had a little white jeep back in the day. I love that jeep, I miss it. You have a fabulous day.
Sorry I don't edit the typos
Love is giving someone the power to destroy you...but trusting them not to.-Unknown
For every good reason there is to lie, there is a better reason to tell the truth.-Bo Bennett
Memory is a complicated thing, a rel
NotDefeatedYet ( member #33642) posted at 5:40 PM on Wednesday, December 25th, 2013
My jeep hopes you and your jeep have a fantastic time together.
"It's a fool that looks for logic in the chambers of the human heart."
homewrecked2011 ( member #34678) posted at 5:44 PM on Wednesday, December 25th, 2013
Jersey--our divorces were final the same month last year....I, too , am starting to come out of the cloud I was in for so long and I am starting to appreciate what my life IS now, vs what it's not.
Have a great time in your jeep!!!
Sometimes He calms the storm. Sometimes He lets the storm rage, but calms His child. Dday 12/19/11I went to an attorney and had him served. Shocked the hell out of him, with D papers, I'm proud to say!D final10/30/2012Me-55
JerseyCowgirl (original poster member #41441) posted at 8:05 PM on Wednesday, December 25th, 2013
OK. No rain. No snow. No mud. So no ride. Decided instead to stay here instead and give Xmas hugs to those who need it. Besides the dirt pit was full of kids trying out their new toys...bikes, cycles and 4 wheelers. Jeepie and I stayed on the sidelines and watched.
Me: Divorced 2012
I know that when I truly love & honor myself I am at my best & most complete; and I will never settle for anything less from myself or from anyone else ever again!
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