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SoOver96 (original poster member #40169) posted at 11:57 PM on Wednesday, December 25th, 2013
Wondering if anyone is on the blog
SoOver96 (original poster member #40169) posted at 11:59 PM on Wednesday, December 25th, 2013
If so do you do things without your shoes on cause I can't because of my disability I can not I'm trying to find ways to get things done when there's no ones here to put my shoes on
Nature_Girl ( member #32554) posted at 1:29 AM on Thursday, December 26th, 2013
Me = BS
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU
Vulcanized ( member #33523) posted at 1:58 AM on Thursday, December 26th, 2013
I get the emails, but am too slovenly to do the actual housework. 
I've tried, but it only lasts 3 days before I give up.
Me: fBW/MH 40s
3.26.13: Liberation day: D'd the whiny turd after being saddled with a serial cheating, NPD, jitbag 10 years too long
Now:-----> Everything is as it should be
SoOver96 (original poster member #40169) posted at 5:50 AM on Thursday, December 26th, 2013
Yeah I keep giving up too but since I live in a small place and I'm always home I need something to do im in the decluttering phase lol
hitbyatruck ( member #23769) posted at 5:57 AM on Thursday, December 26th, 2013
I think flylady is great minus the shoes and all the emails.
I get more out of reading the site, minus the emails. I get way more done when I use a plan like flylady.
Married 1998. 2 kids. First discovery 3/2009. Multiple affairs, porn addiction. one failed attempt at R. Nested for over a year. Divorce final 8/2015. XH is now married. I am engaged!
ZenMumWalking ( member #25341) posted at 10:01 AM on Thursday, December 26th, 2013
Not 'signed up', but do check the site for ideas. The overall concept is a good one, focus on a spot, get a little bit done at a time. (but I'm not into the shoes thing either)
I'm still decluttering, but have also been able to maintain some of the main trouble spots (entry way, kitchen, living room, dining room). Now working on the rest of the house. Biggest problem is that the boys need to cooperate!!
Me (BS), Him (WH): late-50's
3 DS: 26, 25, 22
M: 30+ (19 1/2 at Dday)
Dday: Dec 2008
Wanted R, not gonna happen (in permanent S)
Used to be DeadMumWalking, doing better now
Chrysalis123 ( member #27148) posted at 1:35 PM on Thursday, December 26th, 2013
I like the lists I see on pinterest that have you do one thing a day over 40 days. After I decluttered, If i can do that one thing a day, it really makes a difference in the long run.
Someone I once loved gave me/ a box full of darkness/ It took me years to understand/ That this, too, was a gift. - Mary Oliver
Just for the record darling, not all positive changes feel positive in the beginning -S C Lourie
Kelany ( member #34755) posted at 2:07 PM on Thursday, December 26th, 2013
I'm actually using the Sidetracked Home Executive. Fly lady sent me way too much stuff when I tried it years ago. I like the chore system that SHE uses a lot, especially since I have 5 kids.
Plus, I hate shoes.
BS - Me
SA/FWH Him
DDay 1 - Jul 11
DDay 2 - Jul 12
R Dec 12
Former 80s Icon wishful thinking
SoOver96 (original poster member #40169) posted at 7:51 PM on Thursday, December 26th, 2013
My kids won't get with the program either, the reason I can't do anything without my shoes is because I have club foot, congenital hip dysplysia and siatic nerve palsy and I can't walk without assitance with my shoes and a cane I'm suppose to be in a wheelchair but I'm stubborn. My husband puts my shoes on because I'm not suppose to bend
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