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TheAgonyOfIt (original poster member #39114) posted at 6:10 PM on Friday, December 27th, 2013
packing up house under the radar but still have to attend to regular life. it is so so so slow. sorting, deciding, buttoning and all that. Moving along but wish i could do it faster. that's it. thanks.
Me BS 49, ExWS: narcissist! Jekyll Hyde. Left in secret early July, moved states. Left home, job, whole life behind and difficult** adjusting. Dog injured and too much to handle. Supremely bummed out.
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 6:15 PM on Friday, December 27th, 2013
I know it seems slow, honey, but after a while, you will be surprised by all you have accomplished.
Patience and strength to you. 
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
LoveHerStill ( member #31504) posted at 9:46 PM on Friday, December 27th, 2013
Every box is an accomplishment! Keep at it! Make sure to reward yourself every day you get some boxes packed. A nice coffee or an ice cream treat! You are strong! You got this!
Me BH-45 @ Dday
Her WW-44 @ Dday
Married-20yrs
Together-26yrs
D-Day 4/11/10
Divorced 9/13/2010
XWW Married OM 5/23/2011
It only hurts when I breathe.
BAB61 ( member #41181) posted at 11:25 PM on Friday, December 27th, 2013
Do what you can, as you can. I am mentally packing up all his shit ... can't wait to get started.
Boss A** B*tch
BS/52 Me, STBXpos/56, dd's 16&14
1st D-day 10/19/2013 EA/PA
2nd D-day 12/7/2013 LTA/Rendezvous
S 12/7/2013 No-fault state, 6 mo S, counting down the days.
TheAgonyOfIt (original poster member #39114) posted at 3:45 AM on Saturday, December 28th, 2013
thanks everyone. it's slow but I am getting rid of more stuff than i'm putting into boxes, which is also good!!!! Donations, donations. Less to move. i just wish I could do it faster, but i just can't because it's not all i have to do! WS is out of town until sunday; i wish he'd stay there!
AND i have a home based business with INVENTORY which makes it that much more of a chore.
Thanks for responding to my smallest problem. I'm so happy this is my problem now. It's so much better than dealing with trying to work it out with WS!
Me BS 49, ExWS: narcissist! Jekyll Hyde. Left in secret early July, moved states. Left home, job, whole life behind and difficult** adjusting. Dog injured and too much to handle. Supremely bummed out.
sunsetslost ( member #39885) posted at 6:40 AM on Saturday, December 28th, 2013
I would give my therapist updates. She let me roll with it. I can be out in two days. Next week: I can be out in 18 hours. Next week: still 18 hours. Didn't have the energy. Next week: I can be out in 12 hours. Next week: I can be out in 6. Next week: out in 2. Next week: I moved last Saturday.
Point is slow and steady wins. And when it's time to go you can just be gone
Divorced 7/11/14. New Beginning on the Gulf of Mexico. It's real nice.
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